Since I was twelve my life has went downhill quickly, I developed a General Anxiety Disorder which led to me having stomach aches whenever I became
very nervous and I would become nervous for petty reasons hell sometimes even no reason at all. I would always be worried that I was going to die for
about 2 years, I was scared that I was going to fail in school, I had just a fear about almost anything under the sun.
Then when I was 13 I was transferred to a new school where I developed a new disorder, at first I thought I was just shy because it was a new school
then it got a lot worse. I was overweight since I was 10 and I was never self-conscious about it until I was 13, at that time I always thought people
were looking at me and judging me. I would even critically judge myself before I said anything I would review what I would do in a situation where
things go wrong then after I was done speaking I would then dwell on anything bad I said.
I then became more isolated, I had answers in school but wouldn’t raise my hand in the fear that I didn’t have the answers and people would think
I was stupid or the teacher would think that. So I sat quietly, I never asked for help either and my grades went from all A’s in 5th grade to a C
average in 7th grade. Then other kids would start talking about me because I was overweight and I didn’t have a lot of clothes and because I did not
talk to anyone except a few close friends.
As I moved on into 8th grade the friends I made in 7th grade weren’t in any of my classes any more that is when things got very bad. I literally
talked to no one and thought everyone was criticizing me and it always felt like people were staring at me. Add to that I had terrible anxiety every
morning where I would spend 30 minutes on the toilet because my stomach was hurting from my anxiety.
Just 3 weeks into the school year I convinced my mom to home school me and for about 1 year my anxiety about that school still existed, I had
nightmares about being there again. I developed a new fear then, I was always afraid that I was going to be kicked out of my virtual school or the
computer would stop working or my parents couldn’t afford the internet anymore and I would have to return to school.
By 9th grade my fear of returning to that school was gone but the other fears replaced it. I then no longer had friends, I stopped talking to all my
old friends my Facebook/Myspace and I never left the house except to go to the grocery store occasionally. I completely locked myself away from
society. When I would go to the store I would feel everyone is watching me and judging me so I would avoid being around people on isles and I would
feel like I am walking funny so I would then stumble(not falling).
This has continued to today, I have found a way of socializing through discussing topics I enjoy on ATS but this is all the socializing I get. I do
yearn for a friend but I am too afraid to talk to people my age, obviously this means I am not in a relationship either. I can talk to people older
than 35 easily, but it’s those younger than 35 that I have a problem with. I am 18 I want to have a life but my problem won’t let me!
I should also add that my General Anxiety is mostly dormant for the past 3 years since I was 15, but my problem socializing has never left.
So I have to ask, what is my problem? What is wrong with me? Is there any way for me to correct this? Any helpful input is great.
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10/18/2010 by Misoir because: (no reason given)