Originally posted by wylekat
The same seems to go for a lot of areas in life. I'm just worn out from producing nothing but smoke from spinning my wheels- while ones without even
an engine go flying by and flip me off. It's isn't a 'feeling', this is cold hard fact, and the timing of it 99% of the time just plain drives me
The universe is very patient. Not only that but will continually try and lead you in the right direction over and over without ever giving up.
What the universe knows that you don't, is what you need to make you happy. We as humans don't listen very well anymore and think that we know best
what we need to make us happy. The more that we take the "wrong" path to that happiness, the more that the universe keeps trying to show us the way.
It is indeed hard to read the signs and the more we fight it, the more that the universe tries to steer us in the right direction, hence the feeling
of everything going wrong, and the feeling that others get such an easy ride.
Many of these people are not truly happy, they just think that they are and have learned to ignore the universe's "steerings" much better than you.
They are the losers in the game of life and one day will see that it has come crashing down on them in a big way.
You need to learn to read the signs as most of the time, they are right under your nose and if you would follow them instead of doing what you think
is right, walk up a different road, instead of the one that you continually are trying to walk. It might seem strange at first and somewhat scary, but
if you give it a chance, that road will lead you to a place that will make you happy and you just might find that indeed, you were wrong all along in
what you thought would make you happy and content.
Don't think I am patronizing you here, we all go through the same thing, some just ignore it better than others, while some take a chance on life and
find that they now live in a state that they never thought they could attain.
The first thing you must do is learn to trust that the universe does indeed know what is best for you, and to learn to listen to that feeling in your
heart and just go with it. If you find that life sucks and you are totally unhappy, then you are walking the wrong path and you need to learn to
listen and the right path will appear before you as it always does. Just take it, go for an adventure on it and see what happens. Stop walking a road
that for you goes nowhere and take a path that is foreign to you.
I don't know if this is making any sense to you but I do have trouble expressing myself sometimes. The best way to describe it is to trust the
universe. Don't think about the future, just close your eyes and run to it.
And stop thinking about those that you feel are getting a free ride. They are not and their future isn't as rosy as you might believe. The universe
doesn't care about them when it comes to you, so why should you give a dam. When they laugh and give you the finger, just remember that the laughter
is hollow and the happiness they experience is not true at all.
Now go find a rose and give it a whiff. Its what life is all about. Just watch for the thorns and walk in another direction if they prick you. The
happiness is right under your nose, don't live your life ignoring what is right there in front of you. Stop wishing this or that would make me happy
and just let it come, and it will.