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Originally posted by Dark Ghost
Originally posted by hotbakedtater
Once again, here we bottom line it.
As it stands, no woman HAS to keep her legs closed, because abortion is AS IT STANDS TODAY, one of her responsible choices in her sex life.
Originally posted by Hardstepah
a couple of hundred dollars a month?
if only that were the case. my friend has to pay 400$ a month because he makes $1500 a month. so because he makes a decent amount he has to pay more. you know why he has a child ladies? because the girl who was obsessed with him admitted to getting him passed out drunk so she could have his baby. his rent is $900/month (1bd 1 bath no less) and that's pretty cheap where i live. his utilities come out to 250-300 a month. guess where that leaves him? he can barely eat because he has to pay for some dumb b#%ch's child he didn't even want so IT can eat and be used as a tool in it's mother's sick delusional world.
in no way am i saying that the "i was drunk" card is an excuse. he didn't want a child nor did he even want to have sex with her (and all guys know, even if you are asleep or passed out drunk any stimulation of the penis can or will result in an erection capable of ejaculating). she swears she didn't use GHB (the date rape drug) yet some how it was found in his system and her own best friend even said she admitted to slipping it to him. as usual, the courts said "you were capable of making the baby, now you are capable of raising one" now he has to pay for it for another 15 years because some psycho stalker wanted his baby and last name. also, the judge completely disregarded her best friends testimony because she made up a little story after her friends testimony claiming they were seeing each other which is completely false.
now tell me this oh poor women who "have it so hard carrying a baby for 9 months", if the roles were reversed and my friend did this, we all know what would happen right? his ass would be thrown in jail, this idiot would have had an abortion and that would be that.
if it's the woman's body and she has 100% say in life or abortion, if she chooses life against the man's wishes, then she should live with that decision and forced to do it on her own. why should a man be penalized and have to pay for something he never wanted? the EXCUSE of him taking part in the act of making a baby makes him a responsible party in making sure the child is financed for life necessities. ridiculous. that excuse is countered when a man WANTS the baby by saying "it's my body so i get the final say" even though she decided to share her body with the man by conception.
it's completely hypocritical to suggest that a man has no say in the matter. it is only fair then if that a woman wants to birth the child and the man does not, she should be the one responsible for raising it and paying for it not the man, since after all, it's HER choice, the same way it was her choice to conceive.
i'm sick of women getting over on men because they feel that they were a VICTIM in spreading their legs, as if some evil man came along and seduced them and were tricked into getting pregnant. a woman can say no if a guy doesn't wear a condom, it's just as much a woman's fault as the man's in that scenario.
that was a bit more then i intended
Originally posted by DaMod
reply to post by ker2010
No it's not your body if you want to kill yourself, only if you want to kill an innocent baby.
Get with the times man!!
Originally posted by Jess_Undefined
Well im definetly going to agree here, I think the father should have a say in this definetly. It is his child also, even if its the mother carrying this baby. Im pro choice but I still dont agree with abortion at all. Even though it is the womans body and her choice to decide, I think abortion should be something that is very well thought over and only a last resort, like if having the baby would pose health risks to the mother or baby, or if rape and incest were the case.
That being said, my cousin has had at least 5 abortions and shes only 23. Its sickening how some people can get pregnant and just be like "Well eh, I guess I dont feel like having a baby anymore." and just be able to go to the local clinic and abort it. Its amazing how quick one is to decide. If you are not ready for a baby, dont have sex, or use protection. The child shouldnt have to pay for the bad judgement the mother made.
But yes, Men should really have more of a say in this.
Originally posted by Jess_Undefined
Its just important that the decision is fair for both parties. Yes men walk on there children all the time, but the same can be said for woman of course.
Originally posted by Jess_Undefined
Of course in the end the man shouldnt have final say, in the end it is the womans body and she has to carry the baby. But I was pretty sure the OP asked about any say at all and not final say.