reply to post by zoso28
Whilst I applaud the OP and agree with virtually all the posts
YOURS is it in a nutshell
In fact, I didn't know anyone else saw it as you've described (my family is sick of hearing me say exactly the same thing). And few would even
grasp the meaning, because they are, as you say .. and as I must stop saying ... too busy starring in their own movie. Produced by them, starring
them, scripted by them, filmed by them )
As for decorum, most would ask, 'What's that mean ? '
And seeing I'm indulging in a little rant, I'll add the 'rauccous laughter' trend, because it's gone past driving me nuts and these days makes me
simply weary
We have a prime example living next door. She's an intelligent young woman. Her son is a year or so old and her husband trying his best. So where
did she learn to laugh like a drunken sailor ? And why does she do it ?
Then while in the city centre one day, I saw two other young women do the same thing. Repeatedly. Since then, I've seen/heard other young women do
it. It's like a return to the days of Bawdy Moll ... indescribably horrible, uncouth, inconsiderate and coarse
Basically, the rauccous laughter 'act' consists of forcing a very loud, very false laugh ... with the mouth wide open. The strain of doing this
results in a sound you'd expect to hear once in a blue moon from a truck driver
Except this trend insists on being heard every few minutes
It stops traffic ! You hear it and are astonished. I've never heard such noises emerging from females ever before
Obviously, the women who practice this form of attention-grabbing believe their hideous noises constitute a 'sexy' or 'dirty' laugh. In truth
though, it sounds more like a barking bull seal
The woman next door is aged in her 20s I suppose. Any time her friends come to visit, she shatters the air with her 'star' act, the barking-seal
laugh. She dominates the area. She steals attention. She won't stop doing it
But, having developed this star-turn, how is she going to turn it off ? If she makes that noise when her son is of school age, that boy will be
ridiculed and mocked relentlessly
And while her coarse barking sounds might be considered 'wild' or even 'funny' now --- she's going to alienate the world if she doesn't learn to
stop doing it by the time she's 50
But obviously she believes she'll never age past 30. And now she's teaching ... yes, teaching ... her baby son to make the same hideous noise
Decorum ? What's that ?