posted on Sep, 5 2009 @ 07:33 PM
reply to post by Donnie Darko
Hypothetically? I'll give it a shot.
Mean people are people who are hurt, instead of coming to terms with the hurt they disguise it with anger. Fearful of vulnerability, mean people
strike out first and often at others.
If there is a consciousness shift, then I believe mean people will either realize how their fear and vulnerability are perpetuating the feelings that
cause them to be mean or they will eliminate each other through anger and fear.
I had many reasons and valid excuses to be angry all the time. I acted the way I described above for years - it was self-defense. I developed an
Anger Habit and was addicted to it. It was my strength, my power.
Once I realized my problems were caused by my own anger (self made prison) which stemmed from the fear of vulnerability, I was able to change myself.
By paying attention to my reactions and focusing on the desire for self-control, the anger slowly faded away. It took years and a lot of effort and
I then learned methods to constructively vent which left me feeling empowered rather than empty.
If the stars align and we do have a shift in consciousness, that process will be magnified, thereby making it much, much harder to be successful.
Better start now!