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I was a jerk. Self-centered, rude, not taking the time to listen to others, arrogant. I'm not yet 40 and I realize this. I have become a much nicer person, slowly over time (about 10 years) but people don't change dramatically (I don't think).
Why the new-ish me? I have become more comfortable with myself and I've learned some social skills I just didn't learn before.
Originally posted by TheStev
On the flipside, I've been a nice guy my entire life and it's got me precisely nowhere. It may be cliche, but nice guys really do finish last. It's the jerks of the world who get what they want.
Sure, it shouldn't be that way, but in my experience it is.
Originally posted by TheStev
On the flipside, I've been a nice guy my entire life and it's got me precisely nowhere. It may be cliche, but nice guys really do finish last. It's the jerks of the world who get what they want.
Sure, it shouldn't be that way, but in my experience it is.
Originally posted by dodgygeeza
Being a complete jerk often equates to insecurities and unhappiness - it depends what you value most in your life. Success or peace of mind?
It has been hard for me to stay polite and not be bitter, I think its my sense of fairness that keeps the balance.