posted on Jan, 1 2009 @ 01:59 PM
Why are women complicated? Because we (men) make them that way! We read way too much into the things that they do, and use "oh, they're just
really complicated," as an excuse when things aren't going the way we want them to go. Yes, women are confusing sometimes, but it has nothing to do
with being "complicated." I'm not purposely trying to offend women here, but as an example, let's say that you run into someone suffering from
severe delusional schizophrenia. His ramblings are totally disjointed, and in about three minutes he's already ranted at you about government black
ops, his mother, spiders that can crawl through his webcam, his new bicycle, and about a million other things. You wouldn't walk away from this
interchange saying "Gee, that guy sure was complicated. I wish I could understand him!" No, you would look at the underlying cause -- the
schizophrenia.
Trust me, whatever this girl's reasons are, you're either over-complicating them or refusing to accept them. Her reasons are either logical, or
she's just a confused 14 year old girl who's let her emotions get the best of her and has no idea what she really wants. To be perfectly honest, I
would bet that what she told you and your friend that spoke with her is the truth. She probably has feelings for you, but doesn't want to get
involved in a long distance thing where the two of you barely ever see each other. Plus, as someone already mentioned, she's only 14, and there's
nobody on earth more confused than a 14 year old girl.