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reply posted on 12-11-2008 @ 11:19 AM by undo
reply to post by rickyrrr



i said don't go there with me because you were apparently stereotyping me. you didn't read my posts all the way through, so you assumed i was just like the stereotype that's been massaged to the point of absurdity on tv shows, movies, songs, and books.

i don't agree with withholding the marriage rights from gay people because i KNOW the government is not GOD and therefore it can't say what is and isn't sacred. it has no blooming idea what is and isn't sacred. so the rest of your point was moot! what's there to argue about since i think they should have the same rights under US law to begin with? otherwise, the law is not following its own precepts. you might as well be preaching to the choir!


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reply posted on 12-11-2008 @ 11:21 AM by niteboy82
The following is my opinion as a member participating in this discussion.

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post by rcwj75



Um. No.

Personally, I can't speak for BH but I can speak for myself, but I would think it would be pretty idiotic for one gay guy to go up against a bunch of Christian extremists.

But what exactly is it that is stupid about the gay people protesting that want equal rights? This is not about people not seeing their ideas their way. This is about the fact that I can be with someone for 50 years and still without the legal protections lose all my rights to show up in the hospital to visit, to make necessary death/funeral arrangements, to receive after death benefits, or anything else that goes along with being legally recognized in union. I am not quite clear on what you expect people in that situation to say, want, or feel? Do you want them to say, "ok, after 50 years of being together, he's dead now, we have no legal protections, I sure hope he had enough money in his name alone to prevent a pauper's grave funeral."

So sad. And we are supposed to be the superior country.



As an ATS Staff Member, I will not moderate in threads such as this where I have participated as a member.



reply posted on 12-11-2008 @ 11:40 AM by sos37
Originally posted by rickyrrr
Originally posted by sos37
Originally posted by laiguana
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post by SonicInfinity



That video made me LOL! But seriously...that old woman was provoking a large angry crowd full of gay men. While I don't agree with them pulling away things from her hands, it shouldn't be difficult to see how was simply there as a provocateur.


I guess there had to be one person defending the crowd. You must really see the little old lady as a huge threat if you're really defending their actions.


Little old ladies would hold crosses in front of alleged witches that were burning at the stake. Would you be outraged if somebody tried to stop a sweet little old lady from pushing her beliefs upon the life of another person if that person is an innocent victim who is been burned alive?

As much as I believe any form of violence is wrong against anybody, all the feeling sorry for her cause "awww it's a little old lady" is an unfair advantage for that woman, If it was a young white guy who happened to have his head clean shaved holding the cross would this video be posted here? Even as it would be no less wrong, the answer is "no" as this video has been put here because of the perceived effect it will have on the viewer. It is pointing the finger at those violent misguided individuals who assaulted her and then implying "Look that's what gays do!" by asking the supposedly innocent question "Is this going on in other places as well?" Which is in fact an accusatory question to an entire group of people.

What if I show a video of a republican screaming "kill that N" about obama, and then asked "Wow, is this what republicans are like?" it would be the same sort of strategy: Point the finger at one reckless individual and then plant the seed to hate the entire group.

-rrr


It all boils down to the same thing - freedom of speech, unless they are clearly inciting a riot. I fail to see how a little old lady carrying a cross at a gay rights rally is inciting a riot. She wasn't telling anyone to band together and form a witch hunt or a lynch mob.

Are the people in that video really so insecure with their beliefs that they are shaken to their core by the sight of a little old lady with a cross in hand?

Those people really did themselves an injustice by the way they acted.


reply posted on 12-11-2008 @ 11:40 AM by undo
reply to post by sos37



well said! i think people just need to get a grip on what the first amendment is and then use their common sense (if they got it). i'm not saying that people who disagree on any topic are stupid or senile but the law of the jungle tends to teach us young how best to state our opinions. if you believe that your well being and longevity should be trumped by the issue at hand, and that it is THAT important, then by all means, but i fail to see how the issue of gay marriage in a country with the laws this one has, could be so pressing that an old woman would risk her life and limb to do what she did.

i mean, she's a brave soul. but is it bravery borne out of necessity or senility.


reply posted on 12-11-2008 @ 11:40 AM by rcwj75
Originally posted by niteboy82
But what exactly is it that is stupid about the gay people protesting that want equal rights? This is not about people not seeing their ideas their way. This is about the fact that I can be with someone for 50 years and still without the legal protections lose all my rights to show up in the hospital to visit, to make necessary death/funeral arrangements, to receive after death benefits, or anything else that goes along with being legally recognized in union. I am not quite clear on what you expect people in that situation to say, want, or feel? Do you want them to say, "ok, after 50 years of being together, he's dead now, we have no legal protections, I sure hope he had enough money in his name alone to prevent a pauper's grave funeral."

So sad. And we are supposed to be the superior country.



Ok so why should everyone be accepting of your choice?? Not everyone should have to jump on the "its ok to be gay" bandwagon...why...because its their RIGHT not to. Thats the major problem...if the minority is apposed they whine and cry that those people must be ignorant or racist or this that and the other...why because they don't like you or your choices?

Its a two way street...its not ok for gays to bash straight people who don't like/agree with their choice...just like its not right for straights to bash people who wanna be gay.

IMO...i don't care if they let gay couples marry...do it..have fun...I am not the one who has a the final say if its wrong...that day will come, then you'll know for sure.



reply posted on 12-11-2008 @ 11:43 AM by TheRedneck
reply to post by sos37
Those people really did themselves an injustice by the way they acted.

I'd say they did their whole movement and anyone who stands with them an injustice.

Starred.

TheRedneck


reply posted on 12-11-2008 @ 11:49 AM by sos37
reply to post by undo



Oh I totally agree that it wasn't the smartest thing she did by walking into the lion's den with steak in her pockets. But you cannot argue your way around the first amendment. Those that would even make a case to try to do so by saying she should have been there in the first place don't have a leg to stand on. I'm frankly surprised by a couple of members of this board whom I thought had more common sense than that. No court of constitutional law would side with their argument since consitutional rights are indesolvable.


reply posted on 12-11-2008 @ 11:50 AM by niteboy82
Originally posted by rcwj75
Ok so why should everyone be accepting of your choice?? Not everyone should have to jump on the "its ok to be gay" bandwagon...why...because its their RIGHT not to. Thats the major problem...if the minority is apposed they whine and cry that those people must be ignorant or racist or this that and the other...why because they don't like you or your choices?


The following is my opinion as a member participating in this discussion.

Because in order for gay people to make choices, the choices must be provided. Currently the choice is for it to stay the way it is. That's it. There are no checkboxes here to make your selection. Its just this. Its your right to hate me to hell and back if you want. Its your right to get to pray to a porcupine to smite me if you want. You don't have to promote it, you don't have to be any part of it. You just have to let me live my life the way I see fit equally without legislating it, and yes, a lot of people are getting extremely tired of a majority making decisions on a minority's personal rights as a human being in this country.

As an ATS Staff Member, I will not moderate in threads such as this where I have participated as a member.


Its a two way street...its not ok for gays to bash straight people who don't like/agree with their choice...just like its not right for straights to bash people who wanna be gay.


The following is my opinion as a member participating in this discussion.

People should be good to each other. And as you said, at the end of it all, its not our call.

As an ATS Staff Member, I will not moderate in threads such as this where I have participated as a member.



reply posted on 12-11-2008 @ 12:04 PM by undo
reply to post by pavil



well because of her advancing age, just being in a big crowd of roudy people is dangerous, much less a hostile one that ends up shoving you around with their stomachs. if she falls, she's likely to break a bone, usually hip bones get broken in elderly women when they fall. many die from it. my grandmother died from it because it's a huge shock to the system.


reply posted on 12-11-2008 @ 12:07 PM by undo
reply to post by Benevolent Heretic




or the right of the people peaceably to assemble


she was peaceably assembling at a public assembly. that's the way the cookie crumbles. the lesson for people here to learn is, if you go, take friends and video cameras. don't let the little old ladies be upfront in the mass of the crowd, and use your common sense.



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reply posted on 12-11-2008 @ 12:09 PM by pavil
reply to post by undo



You are missing my larger point. Should a younger person acting the same way be expected to risk life and limb simply by protesting next to/ right with that crowd? You are setting a horrible precedence if you think that is acceptable.

Sorry to hear about your grandmother.


reply posted on 12-11-2008 @ 12:15 PM by undo
reply to post by pavil



no one should. i was merely pointing out that her actions seemed to suggest that she wasn't using her common sense in the situation. kinda like deliberately swimming out in the water to preach to a guy on a raft floating in shark infested waters. you should probably get a boat if you're gonna do it... ya know. the point being, that if you must, at least be sensible about it. take your health into consideration, determine what is most important and then go with your gut. if you think you will stop people from being gay by carrying a cross around, then go for it, although i'm guessing that isn't going to do much of anything. it's just a symbol of public execution not a holy relic. jesus is alive, not a dead guy on a wood pole.
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