Why is it so difficult to say "I don't know", page 1
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reply posted on 30-9-2008 @ 10:56 PM by cognoscente
So what I understand from this thread, is that you are simply trying to express a feeling that you have through an anecdote, which also has the added benefit of teaching us something we all already knew?

What you say is not entirely lost on me; I appreciate what you attempted to do, but what's the point? To open dialogue on "effective dialoguing"?

If that was the point, then you could have at least introduced this discussion in a scientific framework.

And if you are an atheist, why would you ever be anything but indifferent to those with faith. Unless you feel threatened.


Oh, this is a fun question. I think Atheists, by their nature, are fundamentally skeptical of basically everything. Their skepticism extends not only to their personal beliefs but also to the beliefs of others. Perhaps they can't stand people adhering so adamantly to something they themselves can not grasp, for whatever reason: God, the after life, destiny.

The reason someone becomes an Atheist is probably just as important as the present values and beliefs they profess. That is the most significant question. Their Atheism could range from the basis of a psychological framework, to a conceptual interpretation founded on empirical evidence, to a cynicism nurtured by personal experiences, or perhaps simply an insatiable curiosity. The history of an Atheist is very important to consider when formulating a discussion with one. A lot of the problem is that when these discussions arise, there is a series of attempts by each party to confer a sense of moral foundation. An Atheist speaks with real life context in mind, and this is very important to note, while a religious advocate tends to disregard that completely. The only context is the foundation upon which their religion is based, i.e. the Bible, Qu'ran.

[edit on 30-9-2008 by cognoscente]



reply posted on 30-9-2008 @ 11:19 PM by Dock6
reply to post by schrodingers dog




You're so right. We don't know. WE JUST DO NOT KNOW !

Quite often, I'll write that in a post.

Saying it does not increase your popularity, of course.

It makes people very angry sometimes.

First, they like to believe they know and they spend a lot of time and energy trying to convince others that they 'know' i.e. are 'right'.
They'll drag into their posts any number of 'proofs' and then play pseudo theologian/intellectual -- they'll drown you in 'evidence'.

Secondly, their mental stablity appears to balance on their insistence that someone knows, be that the Pope, or scratchings in a pyramid wall, or Grey-aliens ... whatever.

I suspect it's a 'control' thing. In order to function, they have to believe that WE have control .. that WE 'know' ... that WE have it locked in a box or a book or chunk of stone or ancient chart.

The reality (that we haven't a clue really)scares them witless and makes them frantic and often hostile.

So they take refuge in 'theories' and in antiquity: if something's 'old' then it must be the truth.

They could take a heck of a weight from their shoulders and struggling little brains if they simply looked the situation in the face and said .. 'Gee, no matter what ... we don't know, do we? We haven't a clue, when it's all boiled down. Your theory is as good as mine, isn't it ? I realise that now. Oh well, I'll just live my life and accept that mankind does not have all the answers, despite eons of trying to figure it out. Ok. I've dealt with it now. I'm fine. And now I'm going surfing. '


reply posted on 1-10-2008 @ 01:03 AM by Astyanax
reply to post by cognoscente


An Atheist speaks with real life context in mind, and this is very important to note, while a religious advocate tends to disregard that completely. The only context is the foundation upon which their religion is based, i.e. the Bible, Qu'ran.

A cogent point, rarely made in these discussions.

My congratulations to you.


reply posted on 1-10-2008 @ 09:48 AM by Spiramirabilis
reply to post by schrodingers dog



because ATS would be so much less fun if we actually could agree to disagree - there would be some very short threads

and I think we're constantly in the process of establishing and protecting our identity - for each other and ourselves - and when our most cherished beliefs are challenged or dismissed - it's personal

and maybe because it's about more than belief - about things like: who gets to go to jail for alerting the media that the earth is not the center of the universe...

it's about gain and loss, power and control - conquering, raping, pillaging - the winning of elections, the allotment of funds, research grants, appointing judges, creating law, crime and punishment...

"I don't know" doesn't put food on the table or change any borders

so - if it really were just about belief - maybe it wouldn't be any more complicated than agreeing that it's ok to prefer rocky-road over strawberry - we seem to handle that sort of thing well enough

I love the question - I understand why it's here - but it's also a great philosophical question

[edit on 10/1/2008 by Spiramirabilis]



reply posted on 1-10-2008 @ 10:49 AM by schrodingers dog
reply to post by cognoscente



An Atheist speaks with real life context in mind, and this is very important to note, while a religious advocate tends to disregard that completely. The only context is the foundation upon which their religion is based, i.e. the Bible, Qu'ran.


Not exactly.

First of all, that is simply a position. And one dictated by someone else's belief system to boot. A long winded way to say "no it's not" to someone else's "oh yes it is".

There is a reason we have both the words "atheist" AND "agnostic".
An atheist believes that there is no such thing as God. Which is just as absolute a position as saying that there is a God. One coin, two sides.

An agnostic, such as myself, is simply open to any possibility. Including the infinite possibilities of what lies behind the mysteries of our existence beyond the god/no god conversation.




[edit on 10/1/2008 by schrodingers dog]


reply posted on 1-10-2008 @ 11:25 AM by schrodingers dog
Originally posted by Spiramirabilis
reply to
post by schrodingers dog


because ATS would be so much less fun if we actually could agree to disagree - there would be some very short threads


I respectfully disagree.

"I don't know" opens the door for all possibilities and makes for long and informative debates. Where all options are explored and considered.

It actually encourages questions between members rather dogmatic back and forth absolute statements between people who try to force their point of view on others in order to validate themselves.


reply posted on 1-10-2008 @ 11:36 AM by karl 12
reply to post by schrodingers dog



S.D. Mighty fine post-when it comes to knowing the unknowable,perhaps "I don´t know´ is the only honest,straightfoward answer.
Also,regarding religious extremists attempting to forcefully impose their opinions on others (and suffering the delusion that they are somehow superior ),you also make a good point when you mention the words ´insecurity´and ´counterintuitive´.


[edit on 01/12/01 by karl 12]


reply posted on 1-10-2008 @ 11:36 AM by Spiramirabilis
Originally posted by schrodingers dog
Originally posted by Spiramirabilis
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post by schrodingers dog


because ATS would be so much less fun if we actually could agree to disagree - there would be some very short threads


I respectfully disagree.

"I don't know" opens the door for all possibilities and makes for long and informative debates. Where all options are explored and considered.

It actually encourages questions between members rather dogmatic back and forth absolute statements between people who try to force their point of view on others in order to validate themselves.



I respectfully submit that I was kidding :-)

because I've already experienced that very back and forth - and I agree with you

exploring those options and hearing what everyone actually believes is what I live for

until you get about 8 posts in and it becomes a blood sport

but, even that has it's value
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