Originally posted by jsobecky
Huh? How does the state enter into this?
Well, you dont think the Masons are going to be using the fingerprints do you?
See, I have a problem with the tone of your discourse with children.
What you would call the "tone of your discourse" I would call honesty.
Some parents prefer not to lie to their kids, it kinda sets a bad example if you know what I mean.
Kids look at things the way we present it to them.
I concur again. Look at all the things we agree on!
You are absolutly right that kids look at things the way we present it to them. That is why I try to present 'it' to them as honestly and in depth
as I can, whatever 'it' happens to be at the time.
They have no concept of "state", except for which one they live in.
Well I can only speak for myself and what I remember as a child.
I understood by six or seven years old that I lived in a great nation(state). You only have to witness a few 4th of July celebrations before you
identify with the state. And to be honest I use the term 'state' as a vague reference to anyone that claims authority or dominion over a person or
people.
I probably just opened a can of worms with that statement, but oh well.
And they certainly don't envision the state as an "omnipotent savior". They don't even know what that means.
I beg to differ, but its semantic anyway.
I think kids are alot smarter then you give them credit for.
Maybe I have just been around some really smart kids, I dont know.
My kids are now in their twenties. When they were young, the local PD set up a similar Kid ID program, where they were fingerprinted.
Congratulations. I hope it kept them safe and kept you worry free.
How did you broach the subject with your kids, and how old were they?
Most parents just said, "We're making a scrapbook of Jason", or something similar. The kids loved it, and played with their inkstained
fingers.
Oh....you...you....you lied to the little children?
Why? You didnt want to 'scare' them?
You would rather lie to them then warn them of a danger that exists in the world?
You are joking right?
You don't overburden children with adult facts. If you do, you raise a generation of neurotic paranoids.
So let me get this straight.
You would
lie to you children while taking steps to
protect them because you dont want to raise a "generation of neurotic
paranoids"?
Like I said earlier, I dont believe in lieing to children
at all, its a matter of 'do as I do', but beyond that, by denying facts and
information to your children simply because you are afraid of how it might scar them, you raise a generation of pathological liars who are ignorant of
the ways of the world.
Your kids wont care about the truth because they have been fed lies from childhood.
My kids will understand that most of the world lies about their true intentions, kinda like you lied to your kids about your true intentions.