So far, it's looking like this:
Rifles, while great in a "breakdown of law and order" type situation, they are not optimal in a home defense scenerio due to the rounds ability to
go through the "perp", the wall, the neighbors wall, and the neighbors kid (in a worst case scenerio).
Shotguns, there seems to be a general consensus that the Mossburg 500 is a tried and true reliable contender, and it can easily be argued that the
clasic "tchick-tchick" sound of a shell entering the chamber is one of the most frightening sounds to be at the wrong end of.
Handguns, seem to still be pretty wide open in regards to make, model, and caliber.
In regards to the criteria I set, I'd like to nominate the Glock 19c 9mm. It's in the right price range, tested reliable by military and police
(it's big brother G17 more so), has fewer parts to fail or break than most, and is quite "userfriendly" with a large capacity, it's top vents to
further compensate recoil, and the main safety built into the trigger so it truly is a "pick up and shoot" weapon without much fuss.
This category, and the others, are still quite open for suggestions though.
It also might be good to point out makes/models to avoid.
If you can think of any more contenders have at it.

,and although I understand some won't keep up with it, due to lack of interest or dislike of
guns; I highly recommend range practice and experience to all.
Stay safe
[edit on 10/21/05 by redmage]