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Formally known as ‘estrangement’, experts’ definitions of the concept differ slightly, but the term is broadly used for situations in which someone cuts off all communication with one or more relatives, a situation that continues for the long-term, even if those they’ve sought to split from try to re-establish a connection.
“The declaration of ‘I am done’ with a family member is a powerful and distinct phenomenon,” explains Karl Andrew Pillemer, professor of human development at Cornell University, US. “It is different from family feuds, from high-conflict situations and from relationships that are emotionally distant but still include contact.”
experts believe at least part of the context for this is increased political and cultural polarisation in recent years. In the US, an Ipsos poll reported a rise in family rifts after the 2016 election, while research by academics at Stanford University in 2012 suggested a larger proportion of parents could be unhappy if their children married someone who supported a rival political party, which was far less true a decade earlier. A recent UK study found that one in 10 people had fallen out with a relative over Brexit. “These studies highlight the way that identity has become a far greater determinant of whom we choose to keep close or to let go,” says Coleman.
Interesting you point the finger at kids being ungrateful, when their behaviour is largely influenced and trained by their parents.
originally posted by: network dude
a reply to: ElGoobero
I can relate to this. My mom is a CNN die hard liberal in her political views. I think the programming worked a bit too well. She's my mom, so I love her no matter what. But she gets super worked up and angry over politics. We try not to talk to her about it, but at times she brings it up.
Once just before the election I asked her if she would prefer Biden over Trump, knowing full well that Biden was owned by China, she said "absolutely". I had no more desire to talk politics after that. CNN should be ashamed of themselves.
There are also a lot of poor patents who do not work hard enough to make life work when their kids go through hard or confusing times, eg as a teenager.
originally posted by: and14263
There are also a lot of poor patents who do not work hard enough to make life work when their kids go through hard or confusing times, eg as a teenager.
Interesting you point the finger at kids being ungrateful, when their behaviour is largely influenced and trained by their parents.