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originally posted by: St0rD
originally posted by: IAMTAT
a reply to: St0rD
Ask her out again...Something like dinner at a very nice place.
After all, what've you got to lose?
I considered it.
But if she saw me in the same light as I see her right now, there is absolutely no way she would not text me for 3 weeks. She shows me affection at job but she acts like she doesn't want our relationship to be anything more than that.
I deserve better and if she can't open herself and come to me by her own after I made my interest pretty obvious , why would I chase her and start to play this game. I have the conviction that if someone is really interested in you, she will make it obvious either way.
What do you think?
originally posted by: MissCoyote
a reply to: Bluntone22
oh im SUPER picky. like where do you go? i met mine at a bar. is that still a thing?
originally posted by: IAMTAT
originally posted by: St0rD
originally posted by: IAMTAT
a reply to: St0rD
Ask her out again...Something like dinner at a very nice place.
After all, what've you got to lose?
I considered it.
But if she saw me in the same light as I see her right now, there is absolutely no way she would not text me for 3 weeks. She shows me affection at job but she acts like she doesn't want our relationship to be anything more than that.
I deserve better and if she can't open herself and come to me by her own after I made my interest pretty obvious , why would I chase her and start to play this game. I have the conviction that if someone is really interested in you, she will make it obvious either way.
What do you think?
I think you're overthinking it way too much.
Just ask her out again.
Quiet dinner at a nice place...talk together...OUTSIDE the office.
You may click...you may find out she's not really all you thought.
Either way, you'll put your mind (and heart) at rest.
originally posted by: Bluntone22
a reply to: St0rD
She has kids...
Run like the wind
originally posted by: Wide-Eyes
a reply to: St0rD
From what you've said here, you're too similar.
I think that's why you're friend zoned. You're no challenge to her.
I know it sounds daft but that's often the way it is.
Move on. If she is in fact 'the one' she will chase you.
originally posted by: Nickn3
Fortune favors the bold. Yes it’s just that simple.
originally posted by: MRinder
Dude, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the woman is not into you. You are her friend and that is all you will ever be to her.
It sucks. It has happened to all of us one time or another.
If she were into you then you wouldn't be driving yourself crazy thinking about this. When women are interested they will pursue you sexually without hesitation. Anytime you have to ask yourself the question, "Is that girl into me?", the answer is she is not.
Yup, exactly what I'm doing right now.
My interest for her and the potential we have together is just too huge
I'm better off without her.
originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus
a reply to: St0rD
Use the Cuomo sausage sandwich approach, works like a charm.
originally posted by: KKLOCO
originally posted by: Nickn3
Fortune favors the bold. Yes it’s just that simple.
This used to be the case.
Our society used to be more timid. Which favored the bold.
Now, everyone is bold. Even your average not the greatest looking girl, is being hit on all day long. Problem is, most the guys are douches. So this muddy’s the waters for the actual good dudes out there.