posted on Dec, 25 2017 @ 01:18 PM
a reply to: antiantonym
"honest people just want to be happy mostly"
Not quite the way I see it. It's all about confidence and who's chasing who. I've been the fox and I've been the hound. It all depends on who's
what first. The thrill of the chase, if you will.
Sexuality, Looks, Personality are all traits most people look for in another. I've been told that I wasn't the usual kind of guy that some of my Xs
would go out with but upon hanging out with me for a day, they wanted to date me, still being not their type. I've never met a woman I wanted to date
that wasn't my type. The only thing that's ever kept me around someone I didn't have feelings for was good sex and good company but real interests
weren't there. The same is true on the flip side from some of the girls I have dated. Didn't have anything else going on and everything was fun but
no real interest. We stick around till something we're more interested in comes along.
Playing hard to get is attractive to people, for some odd reason. Sometimes the harder one pushes away, the harder the other tries to cling on.
Personally, any woman that falls head over heals with me.. I never found attractive, no matter how beautiful they were. There was no chase for me.
Ahhhh This weirdness called dating. It sucks, it's horrible, it's something we crave... what a horrible, addictive, drug-like turmoil!
Hey... could be worse. Some guys and gals are addicted to getting their hearts crushed. Self fulfilling prophecies and all. The things we do to
ourselves in the name of love.