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originally posted by: TechniXcality
a reply to: CharlieSpeirs
I hear you and agree, but do you feel it qualifies a man as 'gay' who sleeps with a transgendered woman. And also the reverse question I'm asking as well, I only say transgendered woman because I am a male and of course charlie you are a male as well.
originally posted by: reldra
No idea, like yourself, why she chose to marry a man.
originally posted by: TechniXcality
If that is the case, and I don't wish to be divisive or cause inflammatory rhetoric; my question is if a man sleeps with a transgendered woman, pre OP does that make him gay, and after post OP does it make a difference? I'd really like to know your opinions.
originally posted by: Annee
a reply to: TechniXcality
I have to say, there is something about you. You have an amazing "energy" (paranormal type).
You literally question everything - - - at least in your mind. You come off in the physical word as kind of macho - - - but, that's not what I'm picking up. You are very sensitive (sense things), and are open to - - - beyond what is seen.
I really like the new term "Sexual Fluidity". I think most of us fit that. I think society and "man made" religion has drawn lines between accepted sexuality and unaccepted sexuality.
I truly believe sexuality is naturally more fluid.
Maybe your sister should not have used man made labels to define herself. I do not believe being attracted to both sexes un-defines her time of attraction to same sex.
originally posted by: BubbaJoe
originally posted by: Annee
a reply to: TechniXcality
I have to say, there is something about you. You have an amazing "energy" (paranormal type).
You literally question everything - - - at least in your mind. You come off in the physical word as kind of macho - - - but, that's not what I'm picking up. You are very sensitive (sense things), and are open to - - - beyond what is seen.
I really like the new term "Sexual Fluidity". I think most of us fit that. I think society and "man made" religion has drawn lines between accepted sexuality and unaccepted sexuality.
I truly believe sexuality is naturally more fluid.
Maybe your sister should not have used man made labels to define herself. I do not believe being attracted to both sexes un-defines her time of attraction to same sex.
Annee,
You have said this much more eloquently than I could have, I was going to give him KUDOS earlier for this post, based on some responses I have seen in the past, but couldn't find the words I wanted to say.
originally posted by: TechniXcality
a reply to: EKron
Thank you very much and I'm reading that thread, i really ask the question because I would prefer if all people were treated equally and accepted. However is it hypocritical to have that belief and yet still would not personally see a transgendered woman as sexually arousing. Or are the two beliefs unaffected by one another, how can society even with people like me who champion freedom and liberty ever be truly accepting with these internal beliefs even if on the surface they appear differently? Am I just a bigot?