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originally posted by: theabsolutetruth
a reply to: bigfatfurrytexan
I call BS on your call of BS and accusation.
Did you have the responsibility of carrying your children in your womb?
How about giving birth to them?
Breastfeeding them?
Men cannot do that.
Therefore mother = more responsibility. FACT.
Casual uneducated misplaced accusations are still uneducated misplaced accusations, just saying!
originally posted by: theabsolutetruth
a reply to: Nyiah
The second comment is a response to a false accusation.
originally posted by: theabsolutetruth
a reply to: Nyiah
You cannot even quote the accusations you are making as they do not exist. The very definition of a straw man argument. Crazy.
A straw man is a common form of argument and is an informal fallacy based on giving the impression of refuting an opponent's argument, while actually refuting an argument which was not advanced by that opponent.[1] To be successful, a straw man argument requires that the audience be ignorant or uninformed of the original argument.
originally posted by: Shamrock6
a reply to: theabsolutetruth
So I guess the answer to knight's question would be big fat "nope" with a victimization trump card.
originally posted by: theabsolutetruth
a reply to: KnightLight
I am certainly not belittling myself
originally posted by: Gazrok
Hard for us stepdads too.
We don't have the built-in authority since birth.
In my case, my stepson came to know me when he was 18. Fun.
My step-daughter was 20 when she came into my life.
The way I see it, my job is to:
1. Be the bad cop. Mom gets to be the good cop.
2. Help them boost their confidence.
3. Try and get them to respect themselves and others.
4. Love the family.
5. Encourage their success, provide tools and insight that I wish I had/knew of at their age (even if they will ignore it, because of course, they know everything).
6. Be someone they can talk to without hurting mom's feelings, or just when they need to talk.
7. Be there when needed.
It's a tough job, but glad to be able to do it.