a reply to: hudsonhawk69
If you want my honest thoughts on this,I will give them.But you won't like it.
1.I can't help but feel you aren't telling the whole story here
2.She is acting mentally unbalanced enough that it may well be possible she has been sexually abused in the past by someone.
3.If her mother is siding with her against you,instead of realizing that "hey,I have a major issue with my kid here".Then you need to ditch her as
well. The reason I say this,is because yes the little witch from hell is gone,FOR NOW. But she will be back like the terminator said in the movie.
4.The reason she will come back,is other guys when they see how she is half insane,will get rid of her. Guys are going to be thinking,"no piece of
butt is worth this". Once they throw her out,she knows who will put up with her stupidity.
Now,my best advice:
You need to go to counseling with wifeypoo and find out what is up with her. Because I hate to say it,but she is stupid for letting her kid hit on
anyone she loves,be it herself or someone like a spouse. And why in the hell doesn't she realize that it is too late for this girl,and it is on her to
protect her other kids from this lunatic?
I am in no way accusing you of molesting her,what I am saying is that she is acting out like a child that has been abused.SOMEONE somewhere has done
something they shouldn't have to her. This is a case of tough love alright. I knew a guy I grew up with in my neighborhood that beat the heck out of
his parents.He was adopted and resentful,instead of looking at it as they had loved him enough to make him theirs. The father finally died of
stress,and the mother had bruises all over her. Ann Landers said it best,if you are willing to be a doormat,people will treat you as one. This guy
knew no bounds. Until he came over to my house one night. He tried to take unwanted liberties with me and got punched in the face.When he retaliated I
got him down in my front yard and beat him within an inch of his life. I had no intention of putting up with his bs.
He ran off crying like a little girl,and my mother came out and asked if I thought it was a good idea to beat up guys that badly. I told her I thought
it was a wonderful idea. She shook her head and went back inside. She told my father about it and he told her,that if I felt I had to beat him up that
bad,he must have deserved it. And he would rather the neighborhood know that if any guys wanted to mess with me,there would be a price to pay for
He never bothered me again. He never bothered another girl after she beat the hell out of him for him trying to terrorize her mother. He would stand
out in the street and scream names at her mother of the most vile kind. until she got home from school and caught him.
The problem with those boys and girls that I have known that act this way,is their parents are weak and the kids know it. They know what they can get
away with and what they can't. If she thought for even one second that she would get the crap beat out of her,she wouldn't do it. At this point yeah
you might go to jail for it.But you did already even though you say you didn't do anything to her,now didn't you?
My oldest got cocky with me ONCE. He was 6'2 and feeling his oats that day. I warned him 3 times which is the most I ever give. He learned to fly.One
second he was in the kitchen,the next he was in the utility room. I don't advocate running around beating on your children.If they have respect for
you,you shouldn't have to anyway. But a lot of kids when they get in their teens will try to 'challenge' their parents rule and see if they can get
away with it. You don't let them if you love them. The rules are the rules,if they are sound and right,they stay no matter what. They adhere to them
or they leave. She is supposed to be getting help,great,now its time for you and wifey to do the same.Something is very very wrong there.