posted on Jan, 23 2015 @ 05:07 AM
there will always be two side of the coin. And you cant have just one side landing over and over again when you flip it. And just like that it is with
life. Of Course happiness isn't something which everyone can just choose to feel and live it. But whatever anyone say it is our natural state or at
least close to our nature.
Bad things happen all the time and to all of us. And good to! But it is easier to get out of happiness than get out of sadness. It is always easy to
change our natural state. Because natural means without input - you just are happy/content (I do not mean material happiness or such, just pure
happiness for instance when you had a good dream and you wake up filling heeel yeeah for the rest of the day
Until you feel sad because of some event or chain of events in life. But the hard part is to get out of negative fillings.
A lot of people are stuck in the past with fillings and memories. But they do not understand that it is their thoughts which are causing them grief
and sadness. And not life or anyone else. Each one of us humans have a mind which can be our saviour or our villain. What will it be for you? You have
the power over your mind, yes? ... no most people don't have that. and me included. We do not know how to let go and just be. And this relates to
being happy and being sad. We must all learn to let go. Well most people are pro at letting happiness go and newbie at letting sadness go
But with mind training one can get out of this faster and process fillings faster and more efficiently so we can feel natural happiness and
contentment again. Everyone can do that. What I am talking about is meditation, which is overlooked in modern society for mumbojumbo
But it can
really help with this stuff.
And one more thing. It. Takes. Time. We must just learn to endure and try to search for positives instead of negatives. And it will get better. But
please don't use extremes (abused children, etc...) for example that it can't be done. Those persons are in entirely different world of experience
and I wish I will never have to experience pain on that level. And most of us are not in that position. But even among those persons there are many
who have iron heart and strong will to not give in to sadness and have accepted it and let it go. I admire those people. They are the strongest! Movie
12 years a slave comes to mind where the main character showed immense inner strength...and he get out of it because of that - terrific movie!