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guidetube
A possible loss yes. And a risk. A risk that maybe in the future you might need it. Im not saying interest is right, possibly there is better way such as returning with gratitude when in a position to do so. In a progressive society we need to find ways to reward achievers.
I think the ideology of having pride or satisfaction as they main reward for achieving is great but un-realistic.
I think it would take a lot of re-programming of the human DNA to feel more satisfied in giving than providing for your family for example.
Im not sure if its right to set unrealistic goals. Its one of those that look good on paper.
Yes we can teach towards such goals, away from greed, but we should not ignore the benefits of reward in society.
ketsuko
reply to post by Akragon
You're not differentiating between charity and lending.
When I give charity, I don't expect or want a return. When I lend, I am giving someone something so that they can use it to realize a material gain for themselves that they otherwise would not, and they are then paying me back. That's different than charity. And when I am lending to a friend, I don't have much risk. I know they're good for it. When I lend to a stranger, the risk goes up. Who knows if they'll pay me back? Banks lend to strangers.
Charity is when people have nothing and have a real need.
When you lend, the person you lend to doesn't necessarily need what you're lending them the money for which is why you want them to pay you back.
guidetube
My point was I don't think God dictates actual laws such as "consider the poor" but possibly highlighted the main law in creation "choose good".
A law has retribution: What is Gods retribution if we don't "consider the poor"? Man has made their system for dealing with this.
Because you took a risk in lending in the first place. It is your fee for lending money you had to someone who didn't have it on the mere agreement that they would pay it back.
You're not differentiating between charity and lending.
When I give charity, I don't expect or want a return. When I lend, I am giving someone something so that they can use it to realize a material gain for themselves that they otherwise would not, and they are then paying me back. That's different than charity.
And when I am lending to a friend, I don't have much risk. I know they're good for it. When I lend to a stranger, the risk goes up. Who knows if they'll pay me back? Banks lend to strangers.
Charity is when people have nothing and have a real need.
When you lend, the person you lend to doesn't necessarily need what you're lending them the money for which is why you want them to pay you back.
Is it charity when a bum corners you on the street and asks for a dollar so he can buy a bottle of booze? How many times has this happened to you?
But charity shouldn't be demanded. One time I had 89 cents and a man cornered me on the sidewalk demanding me to give him all my change, when I tried to walk around him he blocked my way, still demanding my change. That's all I had on me. So why do they make you feel guilty for having money?
Another time I was lost in Detroit, pulled into a gas station to ask for directions. After giving me directions, the man then asked for any money that I had to "pay" for the directions
Is that charity?
Then there have been cases where I have given someone large amounts of money, simply because I felt they needed it. And for them, I never asked for it back. But there is a lady who kept borrowing money to buy "stuff" which later she informed me was to buy drugs with. Do I feel she owes the money back? Yes, she does.
Akragon
reply to post by WarminIndy
Is it charity when a bum corners you on the street and asks for a dollar so he can buy a bottle of booze? How many times has this happened to you?
Many many times... and of course it is charity
But charity shouldn't be demanded. One time I had 89 cents and a man cornered me on the sidewalk demanding me to give him all my change, when I tried to walk around him he blocked my way, still demanding my change. That's all I had on me. So why do they make you feel guilty for having money?
I do believe I've already defined selfishness...
Another time I was lost in Detroit, pulled into a gas station to ask for directions. After giving me directions, the man then asked for any money that I had to "pay" for the directions
Is that charity?
please see the above reponse...
Then there have been cases where I have given someone large amounts of money, simply because I felt they needed it. And for them, I never asked for it back. But there is a lady who kept borrowing money to buy "stuff" which later she informed me was to buy drugs with. Do I feel she owes the money back? Yes, she does.
Should she return the money?
Or return it with 10% interest when she likely already doesn't have said money to return in the first place...
IF you believe she should give you extra money for your lending her money... that is usury...
and I've defined that numerous times already
So it's charity when a carjacker steals your car, because a car has value like money and it is an investment. But you have the right to choose. So you voluntarily give them your car.
You bought your car with money and can sell it for money. So it is a financial investment. So is that charity because they demanded your car and you voluntarily give it to them? It's demanded charity, so then it must be charity by your definition.
Akragon
reply to post by WarminIndy
So it's charity when a carjacker steals your car, because a car has value like money and it is an investment. But you have the right to choose. So you voluntarily give them your car.
LOL
Does that make any sense to you?
That would have nothing to do with you... You got ripped off... simple
You bought your car with money and can sell it for money. So it is a financial investment. So is that charity because they demanded your car and you voluntarily give it to them? It's demanded charity, so then it must be charity by your definition.
Im not sure how you figured that one out...
IF someone demands you give them money... you can simply say no and walk away... IF they prevent you from walking away, that is forcible confinement...
IF someone steals your car... You don't have a choice in the matter, unless you witness it happening... then of course you have a choice of either attempting to stop them, and risking injury or worse... OR calling the cops
Are you just arguing for the sake of argument?
It seems a lot of members love to do that with me...
I am trying to follow your train of logic.
So if a bum asks me for money and won't leave me alone until I give it to him, that is charity. But a carjacker demands my car and I give it to him, then it's not charity.
A car is like money, and it can be bartered like money. It has value.
But you are a guy, maybe you have more of an option of walking away. Take it from my perspective, a very short woman, and oftentimes women are expected to extend certain social interactions.
Perhaps you should stand back and watch how men and businesses are with your girlfriend. Even if they don't flirt, which many times the expectation is that women should accept the flirting, watch how she is treated.
While you might perceive it as charity, to me it is an intrusion of my private space.
And the expectation to give them money because I am a woman is heightened. I think most women on here can relate to how women are expected to do things, that men wouldn't necessarily be.
ketsuko
reply to post by Akragon
Because you took a risk in lending in the first place. It is your fee for lending money you had to someone who didn't have it on the mere agreement that they would pay it back.