posted on Mar, 7 2014 @ 09:05 PM
reply to post by InvisibleOwl
Please don't think I'm dismissing what you said, but...
Your GF probably had romantic feelings for you while you were still friends. Believe me, there is nothing fictional about the "friend zone" as
ridiculous as it sounds.
Once a woman starts seeing you as "just a friend" you may as well be her brother. I've been down that road way too many times with the same results
This is not entirely accurate. When you first start "dating" you have about three or four date before you get permanently exiled to the "friends
zone". Until then there is a little bit of a window unless you really screw it up out of the gate. And yes your clothes do matter and no it isn't
superficial. You don't have to have top shelf anything, but you do need to at least look like you are trying to impress her a little bit. I so hate
your generation sometimes, i really do. If you wear a tshirt and blue jeans to a job interview they are not going to hire you even if that is what you
will be wearing everyday. So why on God's green Earth would you think that it does not matter on your first date?
Things that should be in a man's closet:
Clean blue jeans (like almost new) you will be able to get some mileage just with those.
Couple pair of khakis at least one pair should be black.
An assortment of button down shirts one of which is to be crisp white the rest find the boldest colors that suit you.
A couple of casual shirts and no tshirts do not count.
A decent pair of causal dress shoes.
You will not have to always wear them but that gives you what you need for an assortment of first dates and various social events. And as I said
earlier none of it has to be expensive at all.
edit on 7-3-2014 by KeliOnyx because: (no reason given)