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bigfatfurrytexan
reply to post by DazDaKing
It worries the hell outta me, too. Being a parent, it is studies like that giving me the impetus to guide my own in the proper direction.
As a human, "human nature" is no excuse except for the most dull of minds (i can't find it in my to hold someone of reduced intellectual capacity to the same standard as myself). As a non human animal, I have varying viewpoints on what I expect. A snake....he will be a snake. He will bite you, and that is just what snakes do. A dog, however....there is some deeper intellectual processes going on with a dog, and I expect them to be nonviolent. Unfortunately, sometimes my expectations are not met. LOL
The human is two distinctive parts: the physical, and the rest. LOL, yea, not very exact. But think of it like this: you have the human animal (our body) and the human being (everything else....or the mind, which I believe tends to reside external from the body, but that is another topic altogether). The challenge for man is to have the human being triumph over the human animal.
This may not be the goal of our existence. I have no idea why we are here. But I can definitively say that if I must live this life, I want to do it on my terms, not a bag of meats terms.
RE: buddhism....it is why I moved away from buddhism. I thought it morose that the point of buddhism was to conquer the ego, but on the other hand eschewing the physical is meant to protect the ego. Now, "protect the ego" is not directly stated. But your assessment is correct in that "happiness" (as referenced in common buddhist thought) is nothing more than an ego that is not being damaged.
I don't wish to conquer a challenge against a weakened opponent. There is no honor in that. While I do like to choke down the ego, at the same time I also tend to take some pride in being a tenacious hardass (which feeds the ego).
In any event, I saw the limitation of buddhism. It was less a "map to happiness" and more a trick to denature the human being and make it less prone to damage.
MOMof3
reply to post by bigfatfurrytexan
I don't believe that. I was poor, homeless more than once, hungry a few times. Through hard work, a little luck with a small inheritance, I climbed out of poverty and way beyond. Except for our needs, we give it all away to our kids, nieces and nephews. They all struggle and live paycheck to paycheck. We help them with the unexpected and through job lay offs and pay for college. None of which is a tax deduction for us.
MOMof3
reply to post by bigfatfurrytexan
I read the study with the game of monopoly. It is a game. It does not take into account the real psyche change that comes over you once you have been homeless. The Fear never leaves you after you climb out. That is why money does not mean anything to me anymore other than being comfortable. It is more important to me that the people around me never have to experience that Fear.
But I am not going to live forever. I hope that we become a better, kinder, and more forgiving of other americans country for my grandchildren's sake.