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danielsil18
Hello everyone,
I'm curious to people's opinion about marriage. Would you recommend it?
I'm a male and not married yet and I'm opposed to getting married for some reasons.
First of all, I know that pros about marriage like taxes, insurance, kids, etc. but what I want to talk about is the relationship.
I believe that marriage let's the couple take each other for granted. I want to explain.
At first when you meet someone you try to look your best to impress them, as time passes you get a bit used to them but you still try to be at your best because you don't want your bf/gf to dump you. Now comes marriage...
After marriage people show their true self. Many couples gain weight, sex life worsens, and this is all before kids are born. You swore to be together until the end, so why bother looking your best? You are already tied down. Divorce is difficult and men lose half their stuff.
Wouldn't it be better to avoid marriage? Couples would still have to make the effort to make the relationship continue. Getting dumped is easier than getting divorced.
Now to end my opinion I want to ask this:
Why is it considered an accomplishment when an old married couple say they were married for 50 years or more?
I'm curious about everyone's opinion about marriage, would you recommend it?
Vicarious10000
reply to post by danielsil18
Women will cheat for multiple reasons one of them is controllable by the male counterpart. Pay attention to your womans female part. It should feel a certain way only to you by you. If you have too much rowdy time you'll boar it out and she'll think she needs something bigger.
Have fun but not too much fun.
You don't want to boar it out just to have her come back years later realizing happines doesn't come in a bun. And have her ruined.
You'll know if she cheats. If not you don't pay attention to her.
If he's not bigger you'll know in all the other ways. Again that's hand in hand with knowing your lover.edit on 18-12-2013 by Vicarious10000 because: (no reason given)
danielsil18
Vicarious10000
reply to post by danielsil18
Women will cheat for multiple reasons one of them is controllable by the male counterpart. Pay attention to your womans female part. It should feel a certain way only to you by you. If you have too much rowdy time you'll boar it out and she'll think she needs something bigger.
But doesn't the sex life worsen?
I have read that for many it almost becomes non-existent.
It goes almost hand in hand with women gaining weight, men don't get as turned on.
One of my worries is that couple take each other a bit for granted, gain weight, then sex life fades.
After that problems could arise.
The higher level of commitment in marriage is probably the reason for the high level of reported sexual satisfaction
danielsil18
Hello everyone,
I'm curious to people's opinion about marriage. Would you recommend it?
I'm a male and not married yet and I'm opposed to getting married for some reasons.
First of all, I know that pros about marriage like taxes, insurance, kids, etc. but what I want to talk about is the relationship.
I believe that marriage let's the couple take each other for granted. I want to explain.
At first when you meet someone you try to look your best to impress them, as time passes you get a bit used to them but you still try to be at your best because you don't want your bf/gf to dump you. Now comes marriage...
After marriage people show their true self. Many couples gain weight, sex life worsens, and this is all before kids are born. You swore to be together until the end, so why bother looking your best? You are already tied down. Divorce is difficult and men lose half their stuff.
Wouldn't it be better to avoid marriage? Couples would still have to make the effort to make the relationship continue. Getting dumped is easier than getting divorced.
Now to end my opinion I want to ask this:
Why is it considered an accomplishment when an old married couple say they were married for 50 years or more?
I'm curious about everyone's opinion about marriage, would you recommend it?
danielsil18
Thanks everyone for your advice, I learned some things that can help me later on. Like many said, for now I shouldn't worry.
I like these threads because I can learn from the advise and stories written.
I guess my next thread could be why all girls are gold diggers... I'm kidding.edit on 19-12-2013 by danielsil18 because: (no reason given)
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Why buy a cow when you can get the milk for free?
originally posted by: Gazrok
Why buy a cow when you can get the milk for free?
Because others may be milking the cow and not washing their hands....