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Divorce is difficult and men lose half their stuff.
Vicarious10000
You better know you can love them when there hair is grey and there skin is wrinkly and you better respect there body enough to know that you don't need another one when she's not around.
Point being she better keep your interest throughout time or it's a waste.
Domo1
reply to post by danielsil18
Divorce is difficult and men lose half their stuff.
Marriage isn't for someone who doesn't want to get married. You don't seem to want to, so don't. If you meet a special lady that may change, or it may not.
point being... your reply told him nothing about what he actually wanted to know.
Many couples gain weight, sex life worsens, and this is all before kids are born. You swore to be together until the end, so why bother looking your best? You are already tied down.
beezzer
reply to post by danielsil18
Married 22 years.
We laugh every day.
We hug every day.
We love every day.
Domo1
reply to post by danielsil18
Why are you worried? Just general discussion or have you seen this happen a lot? I wouldn't worry about it unless it comes up and if a girlfriend asks be honest about it.
Night Star
reply to post by danielsil18
My husand and I had people admire that we were together for 34 years. We had people think that we had the perfect marraige. For so many years, we shared our laughter and love, our hopes and dreams, our sorrows and fears. Now he decides he doesn't want to be married anymore. After 34 friggin years a good marraige taken for granted.
Every single person who gets married feels as though they have found the right one and that their marraige will last forever. It is a chance that everyone takes and there are no garentees.
FraternitasSaturni
Vicarious10000
You better know you can love them when there hair is grey and there skin is wrinkly and you better respect there body enough to know that you don't need another one when she's not around.
Point being she better keep your interest throughout time or it's a waste.
point being... your reply told him nothing about what he actually wanted to know.
You're a theorist. nothing nothing more. His interested in the more practical aspect...
nice thing you got a star for your poetical and romantic side of the story tho... yadda yadda yadda you helped nothing...edit on 18-12-2013 by FraternitasSaturni because: (no reason given)
danielsil18
If I knew for sure that marriage would be like this then I wouldn't have problems.
The problem is how to know who is the right one.