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This is where i would like posters to contribute to the debate. How can a person turn their life around so to become successful and happy in life. I will suggest as a starter learning time management skills and the link below will take you to a Time management map, which identifies all the key attributes which make up a good system for time management.
Originally posted by AQuestion
reply to post by AthlonSavage
Dear AthlonSavage,
I liked what you wrote till the end. You talked about who we are rather than how we get all the cookies. In the end, you talked about, how we win and not who we become or recognizing who we are.
This is where i would like posters to contribute to the debate. How can a person turn their life around so to become successful and happy in life. I will suggest as a starter learning time management skills and the link below will take you to a Time management map, which identifies all the key attributes which make up a good system for time management.
Life is not about being successful and winning, it is about being you and that is where it ends. It is not about avoiding pain and gaining comfort, it is about being the you that you are willing to die being regardless of the consequences. It is about defining yourself.
Thank you,AQuestion,because I feel that has been a problem all my life,defining myself. I am successful and comfortable ,surrounded by loving family members and friends,yet I am still uncomfortable with myself. Does that make sense,and hope thats not to far off topic
Not really much to add that Ecclesiastes doesn't convey with superior delivery and unapologetic clarity.
Originally posted by AQuestion
Life is not about being successful and winning, it is about being you and that is where it ends. It is not about avoiding pain and gaining comfort, it is about being the you that you are willing to die being regardless of the consequences. It is about defining yourself.
You can read all of Ecclesiastes here. Bible Gateway - Ecclesiastes 1 (New King James Version). The author is generally believed to be Solomon, the smartest man that ever lived or so we are told at least until his time. The point of Ecclesiastes is that all of human endeavor is vanity. That we seek success more that we have concern for others; but, the story of the same is that if we worry more about others, we all succeed in finding happiness and joy. Peace.
and they are stuck with ugly women.
Originally posted by AthlonSavage
How can a person turn their life around so to become successful and happy in life.
I can see a lot of real life examples to support argument that all of human endeavor is vanity. In practical terms however what should a person do lead alife without vanity. And in leading a vanity less life will they be successful ?
Originally posted by AQuestion
I do hope you are gay because to call any woman ugly kind of misses what they do have. One of the most beutiful women in the world, to me, was a grandmother in Bakersfield, a town I dislike immensely. She was bit by a violin spider and lost her arms and legs and nose, some moron asked her if it would not be better if she had died, if she would not have been better off. She said that she could still have her grandchildren sit on her lap and help them. That woman is one of my heroes, she was amazing and showed what strength and what benefit we could be for others, the value we could bring to the table if pushed to our limits. There are no ugly women, the physical is just that, there are only ugly hearts, the selfish and self absorbed an even those matter.
The topic of personal change is so vaste, but I think it all starts with being honest with oneself about their own power and responsibility in their life.
Tell me what hope we have, tell me what is worth pursuing. I will respond.
How can you expect to live a happy, successful & fulfilling life wen you surround yourself with unmotivated, unattractive & unsuccessful people? I do find great satisfaction in helping others as well but, like I said....I've never lost sight of the prize. The world is my oyster!