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NEW YORK (CNNMoney) -- After factoring in the rising cost of child care, the daily commute and other work-related expenses, a growing number of mothers are figuring out that having a job just doesn't pay.
"It comes down to a cost analysis and I have several clients that have taken the route of quitting," said Anna Behnam, a financial advisor at Ameriprise Financial in Rockville, Md. "Factor in taxes, transportation costs, clothing and lunch -- what is the true net that you bring home after salary?"
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Sometimes I wonder how the economy would be if women never entered the work force in such large numbers. Better or worse?
Originally posted by fictitious
Sometimes I wonder how the economy would be if women never entered the work force in such large numbers. Better or worse?
Middle-class parents are stretched thin these days. Between health care costs, child care hassles, looking for a home in a good district, and paying for college, raising a child is becoming increasingly expensive. Little wonder, then, that married couples with children are more than twice as likely to file for bankruptcy as their childless counterparts, and 75 percent more likely to have their homes foreclosed. And the danger is growing worse by the year: In 2002 1.6 million people filed for bankruptcy, many of those middle-class parents. a record . As Elizabeth Warren and Amelia Tyagi note in their book, The Two-Income Trap: Why Middle-Class Mothers & Fathers Are Going Broke, having a child is now "the single best predictor" of bankruptcy. "
Originally posted by vicnc2012
Can't afford to work really!!!!!!!!!! It must be nice to have that problem, if your mate makes that much money why in hell would you, it is best for you to stay at home anyway and concentrate your efforts on rasing the kids so they will grow up to be productive human being with compaasion love and respect instead of letting some stranger you don't know do all the work; unfortunately must americans do not have the options.
Originally posted by snowspirit
Years ago, I was a single mom. I was also a homeowner, so welfare in Canada is NOT available if you have assets.
Working, cost me $40 more per month than I brought in, and I had no debts.
I couldn't even get daycare covered at all, the welfare office even suggested I quit work, until I told them I was a homeowner.
Luckily for me, my daycare dropped their price for me by $40 per month, because of my situation, or I would have been gaining debt.
Sometimes, not working, is not an option.
Originally posted by Afterthought
Child rearing and care wouldn't be that expensive if the nuclear family hadn't fallen apart decades ago. When I was growing up, my parents relied on my grandparents to watch my sister and I. There wasn't any payment. It was just what you did. Nowadays, people live so far from family that they have to pay someone to care for their child(ren) -- and trust these caregivers to be responsible.
I do believe that this is part of the larger design meant to corrupt the family structure and individual people as a means of tighter control.
Originally posted by sd211212
reply to post by kosmicjack
I see the problem as people who have children and cant afford to have children. Same as pet owners dont own an animal if you cant afford it. Dont rely on the state for your entire life. Stop doing things you cant afford to do. Not working is a personal choice. The american public should not have to support your personal choices.
This isnt directed at you it is for all who feel it is their right to make others pay for them. Nothing wrong with stay at home moms. Romney wasnt going after them he was talking about welfare recipients. One other thing he doesnt know what he believes in, he is out for himself.
Vote for Ron PAUL 2012 the only choice
Since her husband, an attorney, earned more money than she did, it made more sense for Hayken to be the one to stay home. "When all was said and done, there just wasn't enough money to make [working] worth it," she said. Hayken, who now also has a two-year-old daughter, says she is ultimately very happy with her decision. But other moms are more conflicted.