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Originally posted by NamelessMonster
I personally find it quite disturbing, because I did read the expose on her and originally wrote her off. A lot of her story has to be fabrications, and she was most likely slightly delusional. This doesn't mean that some sort of strange abuse or expirimentation wasn't done to her.
Originally posted by fraterormus
However, after reading the deleted entry on Wikipedia, it sounds to me that Laurel/Lauren's delusions hit a resonant chord with someone equally as delusional who self-identifies their self as a relative. It almost reads at times as though she is confused as to whether Laurel/Lauren was her estranged mother or an aunt. The writing style shows someone who clearly has some associative problems as well as an inability to focus clearly. It could have been a sympathizer fabricating a story of their own to self-identify with, or someone equally as delusional and mentally disturbed as Laurel/Lauren was.
Originally posted by fraterormus
A curious find indeed, but not a sign of a conspiracy. There is simply no evidence of a widespread conspiracy to coverup Satanic Ritual Abuse, where especially in this Information Age where everything is documented would be nigh impossible to coverup and hide. It would be a shame to dredge back up hysteria caused by mentally ill people who were taken advantage of by predatory groups, media, and publishers all looking to cause a sensation to raise significant amounts of profit.
Originally posted by mnmcandiez
This lady pretended to be a holocaust survior when she clearly wasn't. That makes her lose all credibility. Why would you believe anything this woman says? Very gullible behavior.
Originally posted by KilgoreTrout
Which would be to be expected if they had suffered abuse to the extent that they claim to have. I am not saying that I believe the account given in the deleted comment, but I do disagree with your analysis of it.
Most likely Lauren - was born when her parents were in the camps. They were fashioned - after the concentration camps in Germany, some were even set in - places that looked like Germany. I remember as a child long after the war, being strapped to a chair so I could not move and being forced to view the horrible things that happened in a Nazi German camp and was drugged so I would hallucinate while being poked with needles and other sharp things so it felt like I was in that camp.
Originally posted by KilgoreTrout
Although I agree with you that the Satanic Ritual Abuse was hysteria, it was a significant cluster that happened in a particular time frame. There is a long tradition of using mental illness to cover up familial problems, of one kind or another, a means of sweeping 'uglies' under the carpet, locking up those who couldn't keep their mouths shut. In the case of Lauren, I think that some of that may be at play. I read the first 36 pages of her book. I doubt much of it, but there is something about the account of the rapes by the itinerate workers that rings true, the first one was particularly vivid and she was clearly avoiding constructing too detailed a picture, she even had to hide from it when writing about it. I would take some convincing that she wasn't telling the truth about that. Beyond that, the stuff about her mother, I wasn't convinced and I felt that she was fabricating after that, or embellishing perhaps, there is terrible guilt attached to this kind of abuse, it is part of the abuse. Children often lie and embellish because they feel they have to exonerate themselves, they are made to feel it is their fault. I personally felt that these men had selected their victim precisely because the Mother was seemingly quite detached herself and they were therefore able to convince the child that her mother had 'consented' to the rapes. That they chose laundry day, a day when Mother was occupied and surrounded by noise, probably going into the garden to hang out the clothes is telling. These men are predators, they would have known eactly how long it took Mother to hang out the load of washing and that she wasn't going to hear the screams. I also kind of wondered, because the Mother does seem to have had 'issues' whether they may have been due to her own repressed sexuality, or her own abuse as a child, either way, I wondered if they had told the Mother that the girl had exposed herself to them or in some way behaved sexually towards them, actively increasing the divide that they already perceived between Mother and Daughter.
Originally posted by KilgoreTroutThe conspiracy is why Cornerstone went all out to discredit her, if as you say, her version of events is so ludricrous and the result of hysteria?
Lauren's niece Tristie spoke about her Aunt, the only person in her family, she said, who had love. This was the niece that had not met her Aunt Lauren until AFTER the Cornerstone article; a niece who had been abused by Lauren's abusers; a niece who had a court order to keep Lauren's family away from her son. The same relatives Cornerstone painted as innocent victims of Lauren's "fabricated story." I am thankful Lauren had one relative to come forward and say, "I believe you because they did it to me too."
Originally posted by fraterormus
That is precisely the reason why many of these people suffering from Paranoid-Schizophrenia or Disassociative Identity Disorder are often misdiagnosed as having PTSD as if they had really suffered abuse. Many of the symptoms, on the surface, seem to be the same. It takes a psychologist that is smarter and more experienced than their patient to properly distinguish many of these cases (especially BPDs which are so adept at manipulating others into their delusions that many psychologists end up falling for their delusions themselves).
Originally posted by fraterormus
For me, where it becomes apparent that the author is delusional is:
Most likely Lauren - was born when her parents were in the camps. They were fashioned - after the concentration camps in Germany, some were even set in - places that looked like Germany. I remember as a child long after the war, being strapped to a chair so I could not move and being forced to view the horrible things that happened in a Nazi German camp and was drugged so I would hallucinate while being poked with needles and other sharp things so it felt like I was in that camp.
We can easily rule that the statement about Lauren being born in an American Concentration Camp in WWII as being fictitious. Executive Order 9066 which was enacted in retaliation to the Japanese bombing on Pearl Harbor in 1941 did not go active until February 19, 1942, 10 months after the birth of Laurel/Lauren.
Either this person claiming to be her niece wanted to apologetically explain the second string of delusions of Laurel/Lauren Willson/Stratford/Grobowski where Lauren Grobowski fraudulently claimed to be a Polish Holocaust Survivor, or to give credence and reinforcement to her own delusions of supposedly being tortured in the same manner as a Nazi German Concentration Camp, or simply doesn't know how to use a calendar very well.
Originally posted by fraterormus
It sounds like the author of this entry was unclear herself whether she believed she lived in these same American Concentration Camps undergoing the same tortures as Laurel/Lauren or whether she believed she was subjected to such calculated torture at the hands of her parents afterward in her Nuclear Family in Suburban America. Notice again how she can be absolutely accurate on some details (copied verbatim from another Wikipedia article no less!) and can go into explicit detail about the abuse they have suffered but then become amazingly unclear and vague when it pertains to other details they had not anticipated would be deemed important by others reading their tale.
Originally posted by fraterormus
Acts of plagiarism aside, either she's wagging the dog or she's a nutter. At this point I think it can be safe to assume her story was fictitious...the only question is to whether it was intentionally fictitious or whether she is delusional and it was unintentional as she earnestly believes her statements to be true.
Originally posted by KilgoreTrout
I totally concur that "Mental Illness" is as overly convenient as an excuse as "Weather Balloons". Psychology has been used as a means of control, over women especially, for a good number of years. The abuses of playing the "Mental Illness" card, especially at the end of the 19th century until the second half of the 20th, are far too numerous to catalog. Once upon a time it was too easy to sweep familial problems under the rug and keep the skeletons safely hidden away in the closet by sending one's daughter off to the sanitarium for "hysteria".
Originally posted by fraterormus
However, genuine Mental Illness is far more common than many would care to admit too. We seem to regard the Mentally Ill as extremes like in "One Flies Over the Cuckoo's Nest" when in reality many lead very functional lives, even the delusional ones. Everyone has an odd uncle or aunt or cousin that is a benign nutter. You know they aren't playing with a full deck but they aren't a threat to anyone, least of all to themselves, so people around them learn to live with it and love them nevertheless. Mental illness isn't really a problem until the person becomes a threat to either themselves or to others, or they become dysfunctional. Regardless, there is no shame in having Mental Illness or having a relative or friend with a Mental Illness.
Originally posted by fraterormus
As before, her symptoms down to the running away, the suicide attempts, the self-deprecating behavior, and the cutting/slashing are typical of Disassociative Identity Disorder but it is also typical for young girls who had been raped. She very well might have been raped and her mother was entirely clueless, or in denial, or even down-right ashamed. However, young girls also develop those same symptoms when they are neglected and unable to obtain acceptance from their parents. We might never know if that part of the book was based on reality or delusions, but I think it does go to show that the relationship between her and her mother was most definitely estranged emotionally. I personally think it is safe to assume that the divide between mother and daughter was quite real and not imagined.
Originally posted by fraterormus
It's one of those things where if you were active in the Evangelical community at the time of the late 1980s you'd understand all too well. Lives were being destroyed because of the hysteria surrounding supposed Satanic Ritual Abuse. In some fundamentalist communities it was very much like the Salem Witch Hunts part 2. It was putting brother against brother, children against parents, and frankly, giving Christianity a bad name. (Ironic, isn't it!) For the same reasons you personally weren't able to completely believe many of the accounts of her book, there were those in the Evangelical community who doubted the veracity of her accounts as well. After several of the "abuse victims" she counseled came forward to denounce her and question the credibility of both her methods and her accounts, Cornerstone decided to investigate and ended up exposing her.
To be honest, it was better for the Evangelical community to expose one of their own as a fraud rather than say 20/20. It helped restore faith in the Evangelical community to those who were turned off by the manner in which it behaved for almost a decade. It kept the Evangelical community from being part of a nationwide PR scandal. As she was already exposed, there was no need for 20/20 or any other investigative news to broadcast it. It took the sensationalism right out of the media's sails.
Although in retrospect most level-headed people can look back at the Satanic Ritual Abuse Scare and recognize it as hysterical, at the time good, decent people were falling hook, line, and sinker for it. She didn't seem so obviously delusional to anyone who was willing to hear her talk, or was willing to take her book at face value, even if in retrospect those very same people feel like credulous fools for having done such.
Originally posted by KilgoreTrout
However, my point was more the way in which Cornerstone handled it. It was very, very little more than a character assassination. And the point that the neice made remains, they went straight to the family, which makes me wonder, who initiated the contact. I am not saying that the Evangelical movement is rife with satantic abuse, but I am also not particularly willing to rule out that one of those case may have some basis in truth. The articles do not really say anything other than that she was troubled and desperately needed to feel secure, she doesn't seem to have left them that bitter by the experience, that doesn't come across. I would guess that the reporter turned up to the door, and surprised them with the allegations and then went with the response, some will have slammed the door, some will have loved the chance for a gossip. The rest meated out with 'un-named' sources. Very convenient.