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I think that the bitchiness is a lack of training. I and many other men like me we're brought up being told to "control your emotions," and expressing them through other means, or only letting them out in private moments. I think that being under control keeps you rational in tough situations. If something bad happens and you don't act bitchy, people will think that you are a strong person...especially in a situation where someone is being a bitch/dick to you, and instead of losing your cool, you beat them at a different game.
Originally posted by schrodingers dog
Some would argue that a woman's soul is the greatest and worthiest of all mysteries.
They can turn that on and off at will, since they generally do not harbor high testosterone levels (of course there are exceptions), i envy that.
Originally posted by Spiramirabilis
I want to be very careful - because I am NOT picking a fight
but - do you really believe this to be true?
I ask - because I think many men DO think this is true
Don't worry, i'm pretty easy going, lol.
As for your question, i'm not sure 100% you can turn it on and off, because i'm a man, but you guys do a great job of seeming like you can.
But, I can tell you 100% that a typical mans sex drive is 10 times that of of a typical womans, it's not even close.
I believe women are sexual too, but it generally has to be with somebody they are comfortable with.
Our sex drives can be a huge burden, and can become all consuming to a point of being quite uncomfortable. They can turn that on and off at will, since they generally do not harbor high testosterone levels (of course there are exceptions), i envy that.
Originally posted by liveandlearn
If you think your woman/women are doing that maybe you need to rethink what you are doing.
Originally posted by tallcool1
Here's an important one for the men. If your wife/girlfriend doesn't like to haxe sex that often or can "turn it on and off" - sorry to say, but you're doing it wrong.
Originally posted by tallcool1
reply to post by 27jd
Well, I'm glad you didn't take me too seriously. I was only half serious.
And if you've never been too tired - you will be some day. Perhaps that only happens when you're in your mid 40's and have 2 adult daughters and another 8 year old (almost) daughter living with you and you keep looking for the right moment but it gets too late and...and both you and your wife know that you'll get it tomorow.
Originally posted by tallcool1
Well, I'm glad you didn't take me too seriously. I was only half serious.
And if you've never been too tired - you will be some day. Perhaps that only happens when you're in your mid 40's and have 2 adult daughters and another 8 year old (almost) daughter living with you and you keep looking for the right moment but it gets too late and...and both you and your wife know that you'll get it tomorow.