posted on Nov, 14 2008 @ 10:01 AM
You know, some days I am optimistic enough to want to live forever and other days I am ready to call it quits, like, immediately.
The following response is based solely on my own selfish preferences and does not take into consideration "oughts" but only "wants":
There is so much I want to do, I think maybe three lifetimes might be enough to do them all. However, I might discover other interests during that
time which I'd like to pursue, and so I guess 1000 years would be good.
There is a problem, however. I have friends I love and I enjoy serving (like volunteer work) and attending social gatherings. I sometimes like so
spend a week or two with close friends or family. I enjoy living with others for short spans of time (3 - 5 years). But I have discovered something
about myself. I generally don't like people. That is to say, most people I meet are totally self-centered and unwilling to compromise, they never
consider the other person's viewpoint, they are lazy and try to skate by while someone else does the lion's share of the work, etc. This is
especially true in intimate personal relationships. So the problem, for me, becomes more of how to handle the long-term social/marital/familial
aspects of longevity.
My Christian beliefs tell me I should marry one man and stay with him permanently. However, I have found that in a practical reality, after a few
years I can't stand a guy any more. I work hard at being the right person, giving more than 100%, considering the other person's views during a
disagreement (because sometimes I am the one who's wrong), etc. But I have never met a man who was willing to entertain the thought that HE might be
wrong, or who was truly willing to sacrifice much of his own convenience for the sake of the marriage.
So, for a 1000 year lifespan, the moral rules would have to change for me, because I'd prefer to live alone about half the time. A few years married,
a few years single, then back to marriage again. Not because I'm an immoral person but because I'd prefer not lo live out my 1000 years in a
murderous rage at my husband.
You know, my mom had it right. She told me when I first got married the best advice she could think of for married couples. She said, "Get separate
apartments." Rule #1 for the 1000 year lifespan.
[edit on 14-11-2008 by OuttaHere]