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originally posted by: wantsome
She was bi polar and took medication. I'm willing to bet my last dollar her medications contributed to her dead. I'm 40 years old and been taking the same kind of meds the past 20 years. It's known in the medical community the meds will cut your life short.
I didn't expect to be this upset about Carrie Fisher's death. It's not like I knew her. It's not like I'm mourning anyone that was present in my own, real life. And it's not like she was a saint or superhuman in her role-model-worthiness. I tell myself I'm mourning a character more than a person... but that's not quite entirely true.
What I'm mourning, are the bricks and mortar that built my childhood. People who epitomized youthfulness and vitality to me - in various fields, but especially the myriad creative arts - are checking out right and left. It is both a reminder of mortality (my own bearing down on me faster than any of us like to think about or concede,) and a sad further erosion of the symbols and landmarks of my "wonder years."
Yet another emphatic notice that some things and people are gone forever, and will never be coming back. It's easy to just say, "Well that's life." Or, "So what? People die every day. You don't cry about those poor unfortunates." Well, duh. (Though I do try to spare a thought for them whenever possible.) But there are billions of people on Earth, all of whom will live and die in their course, and it's not practical or possible to be aware of all of their births and passings.
Those we do become privy to though, naturally affect us more than those we're unaware of. And even if we don't know them, those who play important roles in our formative years... those into whom we invest empathetic and cathartic emotional weight whether it be a musician whose song we wore out a tape or record listening to repeatedly for years, or an actor who portrayed a beloved character that meant the world to us... when they go, we feel it.
We shouldn't, perhaps. It's certainly not rational. But we feel it. And I feel this one particularly acutely for whatever reason.
originally posted by: HomerinNC
2 scenes from The Blues Brothers, Carrie plays the jilted lover of Jake Blues (John Belushi)
originally posted by: ignorant_ape
a reply to: RetsuUnohana
i suspect that ms fischers mother died of "being 84"-its a very common cause of death
originally posted by: RetsuUnohana
originally posted by: ignorant_ape
a reply to: RetsuUnohana
i suspect that ms fischers mother died of "being 84"-its a very common cause of death
Obviously she died of old age. But she was planning her daughter's funeral and randomly got a heart attack and the family said she was devastated by her daughter's death and something about wanting to be with her.
She took the news badly and than that happend. To me, it sounds like heartache, lost the will to live, plus old age. It has to be devastating to bury your own child.
originally posted by: jidnum
I get that some people are sad that a Celebrity died, but unless you know that individual personally I just don't understand how it affects anyone. I mean you fell in love with the "character" in a "movie". Those movies still exist and you can watch it whenever you want.
originally posted by: ignorant_ape
a reply to: RetsuUnohana
i suspect that ms fischers mother died of "being 84"-its a very common cause of death
originally posted by: Greggers
originally posted by: RetsuUnohana
originally posted by: ignorant_ape
a reply to: RetsuUnohana
i suspect that ms fischers mother died of "being 84"-its a very common cause of death
Obviously she died of old age. But she was planning her daughter's funeral and randomly got a heart attack and the family said she was devastated by her daughter's death and something about wanting to be with her.
She took the news badly and than that happend. To me, it sounds like heartache, lost the will to live, plus old age. It has to be devastating to bury your own child.
I agree Carrie's death was likely a factor in her death, similar to the way an old couple will often die within a couple of years of each other.
My next door neighbor spent 20 years taking care of his debilitated wife. After she finally died, he was gone within 6 months.
P.S.
You know, for a thread dedicated to grieving and condolences, we've had a lot of asshats in here.