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originally posted by: Baldryck
How about we all just accept that there is no more Hetero / Same sex marriage and just call it marriage and be happy.
This whole thing is really getting tiresome.
originally posted by: JadeStarSo were it not for the rapid development of micro neurosurgery which took place throughout the late 1990s then parts of my body after gender reassignment surgery would not have any feeling or be functional at all.
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: EKron
Wow - fantastic post! Just curious, are you a writer by trade? If not, you should be.
originally posted by: theabsolutetruth
It appears that those you and others accuse of some sort of 'age based phobias', or of being 'out of touch' etc is just having the ability to see beyond next week, unlike many teenagers that can't see past their next party.
With age comes wisdom and with that comes the ability to see the bigger picture and having the confidence to say if society looks messed up and heading towards oblivion.
originally posted by: ketsuko
Or ... Is it that gay is the new "in" thing and fad and that is why so many people like identifying with it the same way everyone had to do that brand new thing in school? In my day, it was Garth Brooks and country pop music that was the fad. People all suddenly started wearing cowboy hats and boots and every boy in my high school wanted a pickup truck.
It makes people feel good to know they are part of the group. They feel included and like they're "one of the guys."
originally posted by: Sillyosaurus
a reply to: JadeStar
Not entirely.
There is some truth to it. But let me tell you I see the lgbt community range from 18 to 70 years of age.
Yes I am in the south. And yes I live in Nola so my expiriance may be skewed but maybe not.
Honestly avoid painting absolutes and you may be on to something.
Just know it is unlikely the number of the lgbt community has grown so exponentially. So by that logic these older folks just wanted equality but couldn't get it in their youth.
originally posted by: beezzer
a reply to: JadeStar
The problem is that we're old and not very smart or worldly like the younger generations.
Now those kids are smart!
They are edgy, ironic and get things, like twerking and piercings.
Old people have never spent their lives living and working with a broad spectrum of individuals who may be LGBTQ-BLT.
Old people have only ever hung out with like-minded individuals so we could agree with each other all the time.
We didn't have things like the internet growing up so we're pretty much complete idiots in the ways of the world because we could only rely on "books" (they're like e-books except made from paper).
So you are absolutely correct.
originally posted by: olaru12
a reply to: theabsolutetruth
With age comes wisdom and with that comes the ability to see the bigger picture and having the confidence to say if society looks messed up and heading towards oblivion.
Right....
Ask yourself this question...who exactly are the people that have brought us to the edge of oblivion. The youth, millennials?
No it's the old people with wisdom and the ability to see the bigger picture.
originally posted by: theabsolutetruth
a reply to: olaru12
Seeing the bigger picture is how global agendas are made.
I didn't say ALL older people and was referring to those of wisdom with conscience and MORALITY
originally posted by: kaylaluv
Interesting question. I'm not sure age has everything to do with it. I'm over 50, and I know of several regular posters here off the top of my head who are also over 50 who are much more open-minded and accepting than some of the younger posters here.
I think some of it depends on who your biggest influence was growing up. Mine was my mom, who was always very liberal. I remember her planning my 8th birthday party - she hand-drew personalized party invitations for every girl in my class. She drew princesses on the front of the invitations with each one having the same hair and eye color of the girl who was getting the invite. I had one black girl in my class, and she drew a dark-skinned princess just for her. She tried very hard to include this girl in the games we played during the party. I remember her telling me when I was older that some of the white girls' parents complained of their girls attending a party with a black girl. She wasn't exactly popular among the parents of my friends and classmates. Can you believe that? It was 1968, in the South (Texas).
Now I know that not having that influence growing up doesn't necessarily mean you won't be more tolerant, as my mom grew up in a racist family with racist friends. She didn't know any other way. She didn't really think about racism as a thing until she started hearing about Martin Luther King Jr. when she was a young adult. She told me once that reading a speech he wrote absolutely transformed her - changed her life. She is in her mid-70's now, and remains a very liberal, open-minded and accepting person of everyone, regardless of race, gender or sexual orientation.
originally posted by: reldra
a reply to: JadeStar It's not age. I am generation X. So I would be in the middle here. The outrage is thinly veiled bigotry and 'victim blaming' for some made up erosion of society. The older people should actually know better. I am actually quite proud of millenials, my daughter being one. I am happy to have passed to her tolerance and caring that my mother passed to me.
originally posted by: TerryMcGuire
a reply to: JadeStar
Jade. I can pretty much assure you that a strong percentage of those 'boomers' who took the social and cultural changes seriously back in the 60s are over joyed with this decision. Unfortunately those boomers were only a minority of that generation.
originally posted by: ChesterJohn
a reply to: JadeStar
Just because people have a certain personality types that may be more femenine or more masculine does not necessitate that these individules be forced into sterio typical roles of Gay, Lesbian or transgender.
BTW, I am boomer/GenX not fully boomer and not fully GenX
originally posted by: Battleline
a reply to: JadeStar
Well I hope when and if this country comes apart you have found out who's fault all this is ... because it will be the only satisfying mental thought you will have while attempting to survive.
Oh and when you see the OLD guys gathering up there kids and grand kids to attempt to survive the hell our illustrious governments have bestowed on us, don't even think of asking him for help...you would not want be a BIGOT ... now would you?
originally posted by: Shugo
At the risk of irritating several members in this thread, I must agree with a few others. The first three repliers to the OP in particular I agree with.
I hope this doesn't seem like I'm going off topic here, it's not my intent, but I'm trying to draw a line between certain occurrences and other happenings. Consider the world around us now. I'm not saying it's any more precarious now than it ever was, but lets momentarily take a good examination of the meaning of things today.
How many people have degrees? How much easier is it for people to get a degree today than it was? Our degrees are getting weaker, especially in America (I can't speak for many other countries, and I won't, but it seems that the US is declining in education in particular, and I'd be surprised if we were the only ones).
You've got a society and generation of people, who have had their education watered down so that it is palatable and everyone can say "they won." When in reality, not everyone can - and those who actually could are the ones that have to suffer because the norm has to be made to feel good.
There's a lack of fundamental basics that aren't being taught
- we talk about health like it's a religion but actually don't get irritated by the fast food commercials playing on TV or the radio every five minutes...really.
It's not just a democrat/republican or liberal/conservative thing either.
For some reason, we as a society insist that everyone has to be made to feel equal.
That means you can literally - and pardon my crassness - suck at a sport, or a subject in school, but you get to advance or have a trophy anyway, because we don't want you to feel left out. That's how bad we really are trying to appease people. Eventually, that's going to come back to get us.
So, when I say that the world is going to hell - it's not because I think that "oh no, something progressive has happened." It's because the tolerance level is literally getting to a point where it is ridiculous.
I don't honestly have a problem with LGBT "marriage" (although, I wish a different term would be used), but I can understand where people might be pulling their hair out over it - and they have every right to do so.