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originally posted by: zackli
I heard that quote on facebook a while ago in a nice little picture with some kind of dramatic background, and it's been on my mind for some reason. I think there's something wrong with the logic behind it, but I'm not sure specifically what. It's just a feeling.
Is it hypocritical to have a reason for not having a reason for being "happy"? It may seem silly, but this is the sort of thing my days are spent thinking about, rather than petty day-to-day issues that will most likely not have any sort of meaning in the grand scheme of things.
originally posted by: zackli
a reply to: calstorm
That's where I was going with it, though my examples were fairly dramatic. I was just illustrating the point that, If happiness comes from within, it follows that an individual can remain happy in such circumstances.
Any so-called "normal" person would most likely agree that it is okay to be sad in those circumstances, even if it is only for "a little while" before they "decide" to pick themselves up by their boot straps (pardon me if I butchered that phrase, I've never used it before).
You are right that there is something wrong with the logic.
Here is specifically what is wrong: They assume that happiness is the only goal in life or the only state of mind worthy of possessing.
Now to have joy and love is not the same thing as having happiness. Happiness is fleeting, but passion is a joy for that thing for which you have determined. And for that thing which you have determined, the joy that you possess will get you through all of the happiness, the sadness, the anguish, the anxiety, and the depression, and the successes that are inevitable as one presses on (assuming that an individual has a passion at all for anything any good).
have the capacity to be "happy" in any situation and choose to be sad because it's your genuine reaction
originally posted by: zackli
a reply to: AfterInfinity
have the capacity to be "happy" in any situation and choose to be sad because it's your genuine reaction
I think your choice of words is rather confusing. If you choose to react in a certain way, is it a genuine reaction? And if it's a genuine reaction, do you have any say in the matter? Just because sociopaths came up earlier, many people would suggest that they aren't having a genuine reaction even if they "pretend" to react in a certain way.
What is the difference between what you're talking about and what the sociopath would do?
"Each of us can manifest the properties of a field of consciousness that transcends space, time, and linear causality."
originally posted by: zackli
a reply to: BlueMule
"Each of us can manifest the properties of a field of consciousness that transcends space, time, and linear causality."
Is that like how America manifested Destiny those two-three centuries ago? Cause I don't like the Destiny we got.
I had no idea who this "Stanislav Graf" character was. I think the '___' went to his head, probably even before he ever started working on that "transpersonal psychology" mumbo jumbo. "Holotropic breathwork"? Really?
I'm all for people starting cults, really, I am. I have problems with it when they're called science, though. Science is its own cult.
originally posted by: BlueMule
originally posted by: AfterInfinity
a reply to: BlueMule
I'm just trying to inject some mild pragmatism into the discussion.
OK, but don't have a reason for injecting some mild pragmatism into the discussion, because that reason could be taken away.
By "choosing" to feel a certain way, I mean that you are choosing to shift perspective in a manner that evokes whatever emotion you're looking for. While also suppressing the emotion you're trying to avoid. Kinda like when the first thing you want to do is panic, but you know that won't help, so you mentally slap yourself and focus on being calm and careful.
Being a sociopath is not necessarily a guaranteed "Evil Until Buried" condition.
Life is far too messy and complicated to wear shining armor all the time, and there is always someone willing to muck it up just to watch you get pissed off about it.
Which is probably why I generally refuse to put my happiness (and any keys to it) in any hand other than my own. I've had too many experiences where someone gets hurt and decides their misery wants company.
Actually, panic is one of the few emotions it is particularly difficult to suppress. You are far better off recategorizing it as some kind of energy or excitement, as with anxiety.
That doesn't sound like it's going to make you very happy in the long run. Like sociopathy itself, good and evil are also just labels. Labels that people put on things that they like or dislike, respectively, or that they want to be seen to like or dislike.
I, personally, don't like a lot of happiness. I have triggered it in myself a few times and it led to me not wanting to do anything (and indeed, not doing anything other than my work responsibilities) for several days before I managed to snap myself out of it. I settle for neutral most of the time.
Then why are we having this discussion? You've chosen a very ambiguous position to defend.
That just goes to support my previous statement.
But there is substance to this reasoning..
So in a sense, when we experience happiness, we become attached to it - the feelings of happiness. And when things change (and inevitably they do) we feel sad or depressed. In a sense, you can say happiness and sadness are like two sides of the same coin.
You were attacking me? I don't take sides. I simply point out the flaws in all of them. It's the only intellectually honest way to be.
When I thought you were actually talking about changing your feelings at will, I thought you were just unsound. Now that I know you're just talking about intellectualizing them away, as I did, I no longer think you're unsound.
I don't recall attacking you.
I'm glad we reached an understanding.
Insofar as this thread is concerned, yes. I don't subscribe to the idea that anyone can really understand anyone else for the simple reason that what someone says is going on in their head is not verifiable in any way.
originally posted by: zackli
a reply to: nOraKat
So in a sense, when we experience happiness, we become attached to it - the feelings of happiness. And when things change (and inevitably they do) we feel sad or depressed. In a sense, you can say happiness and sadness are like two sides of the same coin.
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Why wouldn't you just think, in spite of all of the garbage that just happened to you, you actually have it really good.
Hmm..I took it to mean don't let your happiness depend on anything, just be happy for it's own sake...which makes sense - to me - but also seems very hard to do. Contentment is probably more achievable in that regard.