posted on Sep, 1 2013 @ 10:55 PM
It was consensual, it was safe and they were 15.
Its gonna be hard for your daughter for awhile but she will get over it.
This sort of thing happens ALL THE TIME, its only different now coz its your daughter.
I went through similar stuff when my sis was growing up, I used to worry and be protective of her but then 1 day I was at my GF house while her
parents were away. We were both 20 and when her brother came to visit he was nice to me but then I heard him yelling at her for having a man over.
Something in me clicked, I thought Im not doing anything wrong, I treat this girl well, this guys a nutcase.
I realised I was exactly the same as my GFs brother.
I made a decision that day to let my sis make her own mistakes and just be there for her.
She is now 27, shes single but sensible, shes a very attractive girl and Ive seen how she handles sleazy men, Ive never been more proud.
These things are part of growing up, your daughter is smart, she will learn from this.
Just make sure your there for her, provide fatherly attention and affection and your daughter will grow up well balanced and with self respect
P.s to be able to talk about this stuff with your 15 year old daughter is fantastic, you are doing a great job as a father and you most definately
have not failed her