posted on Jun, 14 2013 @ 12:57 PM
reply to post by JasmineG
the only deception is monogamy.
if you're trying to convince yourself that two people can be happily monogamous for life then you're lying to yourself. It's unnatural for one
thing, and for another it's based in fear, insecurity, desperation, etc etc...it's negative. Hate what I'm saying all you want, go ahead and
demonize me to make me seem more "wrong" but what I'm saying is easily demonstrable, and perfectly sound in it's logic based on the evidence
presented by society all around us.
Being independent/self sufficient is the sign of a very healthy person, so long as it's remembered that being independent doesn't mean being
completely isolated. Forming alliances with others is fine, having an understanding with another person is of the utmost importance. I'm talking
about from the very basic five minute acquaintance to life long friends(BTW, ever wonder why it's usually easier to maintain long term friendships,
than long term romantic relationships most of the time? Hint: It's consistent with the exact reasons I've listed above).
Yes people that cheat are being deceptive, but they're also put in a tough position. People are independent, they want to be themselves. Society
has us trapped into these crazy relationship dynamics that clearly don't work well.
I honestly don't see how anyone can argue against what I'm saying, unless they use the old..."well none of that's true in MY situation..." Which
seems to be the only thing anyone has to say, ever. If you try and use your own experience to back up anything you say, I'll just ignore you.