posted on May, 29 2013 @ 08:08 AM
I have a question. I've been thinking about something & I'm wondering if anyone else has had this experience or is experiencing it.
It *SEEMS* like a couple of key people in my life can't stand to see me happy. They LOVE it when I'm negative!
I will be happy & the "offending person" will try to do everything within their power to make me negative. I brush it off & go on my merry way.
The offending person gets so bugged about my good mood that every interaction with me is horribly negative.
If I still try to remain positive the offending person almost gets irate and wants to bring me down to their level.
After a while of this - I finally just lose the happiness and I'm negative. I'm down, angry, sad, etc.
Then & only then it seems like they are happy. It *SEEMS* like when I'm not happy they're happy.
For instance, a week ago last Monday, I found out some wonderful news. I was grinning ear to ear. Nothing could have brought me down. I haven't
told a lot of people about this wonderful news but one of the offending persons found out. As soon as they saw me & found out my news they were
dogging me for over a week. Yesterday, I finally just lost it. I got very mad & then upset. I'm still quite upset.
It's really sad because I'm at a critical point in my life & you would expect this person to be very happy & very supportive of me. This person I
can't just kick out of my life at this point although I really wish I could at this time.
And come think of it, I have another question. If you're temporarily stuck with a person like this how do you get by everyday with out going insane?
How do you cope until you're able to say, "See ya"?
edit on 29-5-2013 by nerdyclutzyblonde because: Sorry about the typos!