posted on Apr, 18 2013 @ 01:45 AM
Why do so many people feel a need to justify other people being irresponsible for their own emotions? The world may be unfair (here is a hint, it is);
but, you own your emotions. I am just not impressed by people who blame their emotions on others. Heck, my ex cheated on me and gave me herpes and I
forgave her and took responsibility for my emotions. Was I upset at first, yeah. Still, only I live with my feelings and I choose to forgive her and
let all that anger go, the only one that benefits is me. Why should I hurt myself for what someone else did that effected me in a negative way?
We choose how to feel about things, that is what we have under our control. Initial reactions are what they are; but, we do have intelligence and can
determine what we do with those feelings, our feelings. People can justify their anger to me all day; but, in the end, why do they choose masochism,
do they agree with those that hurt them, that they should be hurt? Own your emotions, own you and take responsibility for both. Grow up and be self
directed even though you are challenged by life, it isn't going to get easier. A rant.