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Originally posted by eletheia
reply to post by kimish
A rapist doesn't require a trigger for their actions
* Not all victims of rape are dressed provocatively
* Not all victims of rape are intoxicated to the extent of being "fair game" or "asking for it"
to a potential rapist
* Not all victims of rape are in secluded areas or off the beaten track.....indeed some have
even been raped by someone who has broken into their homes (where they have a right to
feel safe) and to add to that not all of them have been young there have been cases reported
where the victim has been in their 60's 70's and even 80's.
Originally posted by eletheia
reply to post by sonnny1
I am in complete agreement with your sentiments
I have seen it first hand with my own daughter raising her daughter just turned 16yrs
We are both appalled at the lack of guidance, lack of boundries, and lack of concern
of the parents of her peers.
Originally posted by eletheia
reply to post by peck420
You do realise that I am entitled to have the same freedom to wear what I like, drink as
much as I like, go any where I want ....The same as any man on the planet, without
the fear of being raped by some inept low life.
"You have the right to PROSECUTE and expect that your attackers be punished to the fullest extent under the law for their heinous crime that no one should ever be allowed to commit, but no, you don't have the right to go walking in a thong and bra into a crowd of drunken men, drunk past the legal limit yourself, and have NO FEAR of being harmed."
Originally posted by XGodofWar
I was extremely angered that only 2 boys went down for that atrocity. Everyone posting on twitter about it and present in the video who did nothing to stop it should have also gotten time. They received slaps on the wrist and not the wake up call society needed.
Originally posted by MotherMayEye
reply to post by 00nunya00
You wrote:
"You have the right to PROSECUTE and expect that your attackers be punished to the fullest extent under the law for their heinous crime that no one should ever be allowed to commit, but no, you don't have the right to go walking in a thong and bra into a crowd of drunken men, drunk past the legal limit yourself, and have NO FEAR of being harmed."
True.
But, she still has a right to to go walking in a thong and bra into a crowd of drunken men, drunk past the legal limit, and not be raped.
And I think this is where all the lines get blurred. Yes, she should fear it, but she would be in no way asking for it, inviting it, nor would she deserve it.
Originally posted by MagesticEsoteric
reply to post by quietlearner
I appreciate your kind words.
Although I do feel a sense of strength for speaking about what happened to me, I do not feel very strong right now. Quite the opposite actually.
Honestly, right now, I feel like I'm walking on that very campus...wondering who knows...what do they know...what did they see.
Just by talking about what happened, I feel like there is a huge bulls eye on my back. Wondering if there might just happen to be someone on this forum that knows what happened to me that night.
Someone that knows more than I ever will.
Originally posted by 00nunya00
I agree with your first statement, and disagree with the *eventuality* of your second.
I agree that a woman who wears next to nothing and goes out and gets too drunk has the right to wake up hungover for her mistakes and nothing more. However, I think the latter part is where we start taking things too far just because some stupid moron made some ridiculous statement at some point in the past, and now we have twisted the statement in our own statement of rights.
If I put on a skirt that shows my thong and almost my crotch, and go downtown and get drunk to where I can't be trusted to drive, and park myself in a bar full of drunk frat boys, what am I expecting? What am I "asking for" in all senses of the word? It's like the old debate about where our first amendment rights end; do I have the right to go into an airport and scream "BOMB BOMB BOMB!!!" even though I'm not actually making any sort of threat, and expect not to be arrested for the impression I'm giving off? No.