posted on Oct, 31 2012 @ 02:09 PM
hello ats, I currently work with a guy that shows many signs sociopathic behavior. Holier than thou mentality, complete lack of apathy for other co
workers, extremely manipulative, sets unrealistic goals and will try to destroy anyone that gets in his way, and has succeeded once so far and he also
ended up being the one to fill the empty position. He will go thru production plant bragging out about his pay increase when there are workers out
there who haven't seen a raise in over ten years. just constantly starting drama, then denies denies denies. He definitely has the higher ups fooled,
now he's trying to start f'in with me.
He is currently trying to get the guy i work with on a day to day basis fired. and has taken great strides to single him out and force blame of
mistake on to him. This he is not quiet about he will very casually tell you that, that is his intention, and will tell anyone that will listen.
My issue comes in now that he is trying to play off my emotion of several injustices in the work place that have been bestowed upon me, Trying to get
me to snap and go off on said guy or take my issues to the owner, and also feeding in to my contemplation to quit my job, because i have similar
complaints about the man he is trying to destroy, by constantly rubbing these injustices in my face at every given chance. For example I was promoted
6 months before him, but since then i have not seen a pay increase or put on salary as i was told i would, he however has the owner by the balls and
has since got two pay increases and put on salary, he was quick to tell me this, as he knows its one of my biggest issues currently, and then follows
it by im not telling you so you get mad i just though it could help you to make a decision on what you do next, as far as quitting or going to the
boss and teling all the things i am angry about, witch are related to the guy he wants gone. I would hate to see you go but i can help you with your
resume if you want. Really gtfoh!
So my ats friends i ask of you, How do i make this guys head explode metaphorically speaking.Im not experienced in mental health issues at all, so im
not sure how these people brains work and what sort of stuff will send him in a million direction trying to re plan his scheme.
To many of you this may sound wrong or pretty messed up of me to try to do, but if you only knew half of the mental anguish the a-hole has put me thru
you would understand.
So i ask of you how do these peoples minds work?
what kinda stick can i throw in his spokes to send him over the handle bars?
what kinda triggers can i pull to just turn his world upside down?
As of right now he doesn't know i am on to him and for all i know he may not even recognize his own sociopathic behavior, which could make this all
the more fun.
Like i said i know its messed up but this guy has it coming any help would be appreciated.