reply to post by Revolution9
1. Women have a right to choose to NOT get pregnant! They need to use common sense and decide these things before hand,so they aren't bringing
children into this world in an unstable family situation.
2.Women need to be taught from the beginning that there is NO KNIGHT in shining armor. No one is going to sweep you away into a castle and you'll all
live happily ever after.Those are called fairy tales for a reason. Parents need to bring up they're daughters to make informed intelligent decisions
over who they pick as a mate.Not to just follow where ever they're heart leads them. It will generally lead them to heartache.
3.Having been there and done that,I can say with authority,that if you find that you have a man who does not wish to fulfill his obligations to
support the family. Stop hanging on to him.Any man can find himself without a job in this day and age.But a loser will always lose a job no matter how
badly his family is depending on him.Then make excuses as to why he can't get another one.Forget him and move on. You made a bad choice and now it
falls on you as a women to fix the situation and work,no matter whether you like it or not.
4.This is NOT the first time that women have had to pick up the mans part and support the family financially.During WW2 while the men went away to
fight the women were left to not only deal with the children,but also run the factories that were left without enough workers.(I'm sure this was true
in other countries as in America).
The bottom line is this,if you are going to make bad decisions that will effect your children,then you have to pick up the pieces and fix the
situation you are in.This is nothing new,women have been having to support and try to raise children by themselves forever. The man dies or becomes
ill etc.The difference is that we have a group of people that PURPOSELY get pregnant over and over to stay on government handouts,feeling that THEY
are entitled to be handed money for having those kids.Thats how back in the 80s it was shocking for Americans to see that we had generation after
generation of families that had never worked. They just waited till they were old enough and got pregnant to stay on welfare.Okay so what about the
guys then? They can't get pregnant right? Well they just shacked up with they're girlfriends that were getting the money so they didn't have to
work. It's a down right mess.So yes people get mad and angry about the whole thing.I don't think anyone here would be upset about someone that lost
a husband and was trying to raise they kids they ALREADY had before he died getting money.It's the others that have made it they're career to get
pregnant that are the problem.
Sorry for the long post.