posted on Sep, 17 2012 @ 12:14 PM
Originally posted by trysts
reply to post by Bodhi911
I didn't watch the videos, Bodhi911, but I do want to ask, what is wrong with judging people? Judgments are made every day of our existence. We judge
whether we like this person or that person. I don't see where judging people should be negated?
Because by not judging them and disqualifying them from being a part in your life, you are actually missing out on learning so much about how to
handle that personality. And learning that will save you
so much anger, frustration and sadness, specially when you are forced to work with
someone you dont really want to!
I have learned that the more people you get along with, the easier your life become. Its often the behavior of other people which frustrates us, and
its not possible in life to just avoid everybody you dont like. And its certainly not possible to make them
change if they are one of the soul
groups who dont see anything wrong with how they act.
have to change and learn how to handle their personality with a smile and with an understanding that they are not out to get you - they
are just different with a different perception of themselves, their goals and their ambitions.
Hope that makes sense.
P.S. Think about someone in your life you have a hard time with... we all have them.... and how it would benefit you to understand that persons
actions and feelings to the degree that you simply smile whenever they are being arrogant or selfish.
Because you just "get it". Why they do it.
edit on 17-9-2012 by Bodhi911 because: (no reason given)