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Originally posted by tothetenthpower
reply to post by SearchLightsInc
I can't do the research for you. I wish I could, but I've looked into this for years now and it's a growing trend. If you look at things on Tumblr like " I Need Feminism Because" and things like that it becomes very apparent.
Problem is contemporary research on the issue is stark, because it's been mostly overlooked and considered a myth by most.
All I can do is open your eyes to it being an actual thing, as most people don't believe it is and send you off to the mighty interwebs to figure it out for yourself .
~Tenthedit on 6/18/2012 by tothetenthpower because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by KnawLick
reply to post by SearchLightsInc
For me personally what "pisses" me off and what I consider male "plight". Is a deep bond that has existed since the inception of mankind between men and women. There has always been the understanding of a mutually beneficial relationship, not based on "PC equality" but on the hard facts.
The idea has been to train people to see no difference between man or women. That this is the only way to equality. But when you live in reality there are distinct differences, and strengths, between the sexes. Its these UNIQUE attributes that each brings to the table that makes us equals. Not the homogenous blending together of male and female.
Celebrate femininity and masculinity, not Pat from SNL haha
Originally posted by Zaphod58
reply to post by SearchLightsInc
Without using any articles, only personal experience, I've seen this happening. I've just learned to cut down on my attempts at courtesy. I opened the door for a woman once going into the mall, just trying to be polite, and got one of the dirtiest looks I've ever gotten. You would have thought I had insulted her as she walked by.
Even with my other half, who appreciates my attempts, I don't do things like that much anymore. I was taught to do these things EVERY time I went out with a woman, regardless of where we went. It wasn't that women were helpless, or incapable of doing them for themselves, it was just polite. Open doors, pull out chairs, walk on the sidewalk closest to the road, that kind of thing.
Originally posted by Zaphod58
reply to post by SearchLightsInc
See, that's just it though. That's happening more and more lately. It's almost like opening a door for a woman is saying that they are too weak to do it for themselves, and I'm insulting them.