Well that's it after a heart to heart she packed up and left me, I feel a little down but I guess its for the best.
Been married 9 years and we had some great times but we also had to many hard ones too, She has been abusive in the past (a couple decent scars to remember her by) but I know I drove her up the wall on occasion.
She has decided to move down south and she is going to get a quick divorce, I agreed to sign whatever she wants and because she is already loaded she will not ask for anything but my signature.
So Iam 38 now single and looking forward (I think) to the future without the red headed banshee .

So If I post in the future that I have met another red head please someone find me and punch me in the face lol.
Got a date with a 20 year old (bottle of scotch) so forgive me if I post later a little drunk.
Chin Chin all

Congratulations.

I'm so sorry to hear about your Divorce. I hope for the best for you.

Sorry to hear that but like you said hopefully it is for the best. Enjoy your new found freedom but expect some #ty times too. ATS is full of good people to remind you that few things in this world really matter.

Its time to get down that GYM and go on the prowl again.

Just in time for mating season (Summer)

I see a major road trip in your future lol.

Well as long as you were both pretty much done with each other just be civil and caring as one would for the human aspect and see how it goes. My ex and I are better friends now than we ever could have been. Each instance is different.

One word of warning......dont let her catch you dancing on the table or spiking the ball lol....

Best of luck OP.

At least it's a good thing she won't sue you for everything you have.

Be sure to read the papers carefully before you sign anything. Better yet, hire a trustworthy lawyer (oxymoron?) to read it.

At least you know that bottle of scotch will treat you right!!

Good luck.

I would say "I'm sorry" but it doesn't appear that you are.

Sometimes relationships are better off not existing at all, no matter how much time you put into them. If your soon-to-be ex was physically abusive and crazy, she's not worth keeping.

I gather there are no children from your marriage, so it should be an easy divorce. Not all redheads are crazy, though.....Wait, let me think that through.....I take it back. Every redhead I've ever known has been a hot-headed loon, including my ex-husband.

Time to do the "Thank God She's Gone" dance!