posted on May, 8 2012 @ 06:36 PM
You got a double edged blessing. First off, congrats!
Beings a single man after years of marriage is going to be an adventure!
But also, I understand the shock. I was married for 12 years, and even though I secretly hoped it would end, when it did, I was very mixed emotion
Divorce is like death, literally.
You go through almost the same grieving process once it hits you. Be prepared.
The only thing that helped me was finding another woman!
And I wanted my marriage to end.
Good luck to you!