posted on May, 8 2012 @ 10:57 AM
Went through it 12 years ago (wow time flies when your having fun lol) I was 30 at the time. After all was said and done, I bought a ski boat and took
up wakeboarding, a year later took up snowboarding, then went to school and got a degree, it was like being in my 20's again. I never could have done
those things while I was with my ex, she would have seen it all as a waste of money, better to make car payments, remodel the house, buy all kinds of
junk that we really didn't need. In the end I didn't get to keep the new car I made so many payments on, not the new furniture, or electronics I
paid so dearly for. My point being is that now is the time to go out and find things that YOU enjoy, indulge yourself a little.
Best of luck to ya buddy, and like others have said "Watch what you sign"