posted on Nov, 13 2011 @ 07:14 PM
Originally posted by ReadyPower
I started dating a girl, who is really sweet to me and pretty... the problem is she had 2 kids, with 2 dads..
She spent the weekend with me, and it was fun.. but it was kind of weird.. her kids (1 and 3) kept crying, and distracting us..
Anyway... would you... have you.. are you.. dating somebody with another man/womans child?
Been there and done that and i will never do it again. She can never be totally yours because she has 2 other men on her mind, the fathers of her
children and she will always
have that connection with them so it will always seem like theres more people involved in your relationship than
just you and her. I have my own trust issues because i got royally screwed by a woman who had a kid with another man and i was the one that ended up
the loser after i played daddy to her little girl for 3 years and got used hardcore.
You have to keep in mind that she had 2 kids with 2 different men and that will give you a clue about her morals, plus she spent the night
you and had her kids along with someone she probably barely knows. Its your life and your call. I am not going to say she is a bad person
because i don't really know her but if it was me i wouldnt even get attached or involved i'd just walk away before you get hurt. Thats if i were