Originally posted by BlackStar99
Originally posted by muse7
Are you also against the woman having an abortion if she gets raped by a family member/complete stranger?
It's still a life.
Yes.. It's still a life even though the OP stated valid reason that said baby could be despised because she relives that event every time she looks
into the child's eyes (If you doubt that could happen then you are very sadly mistake because humans are not perfect), she knows how he/she was
conceived, but its fine if her parents/partner disowns her and makes her fend for herself possibly pushing her into a downward suicidal spiral in a
one bedroom apartment and barley managing to pay the rent because YOU don't think its right to get rid of that fetus
I saw a post the other day that was a doctor scaring a woman into keeping a baby because she had a child already and couldn't handle having another
one, now you tell me when it was alright for them to be mentally, financially, and physically drained because SHE was FORCED to keep it due to someone
scaring her and convincing her that killing the fetus was the same as killing the baby in her arms.
NO IT IS NOT THE SAME! ... One child is hard enough work, now think about it, if that child is still in her arms at this point, he will probably just
be learning to walk and talk when the other child is born, she's not getting any breaks she's been forced to get straight back into the game of
parenting, no down time for her because society doesn't think its acceptable. (I've heard a lot of woman say pregnancy is painful -
- Link, I know there is only a handful but you'll get the drift)
You don't have the right to say who can and can't do what, if people want to do it then they can. YOU maybe don't want to do it, if you get a girl
knocked up fine, do it your way and don't have the abortion but if you aren't financially stable, to not only bring up one child, how are you going to
fare with two children? It's going to be pretty dam hard.
You are a nobody until you are actually in the shoes of these people YOUR OPINION DOESN'T MATTER IF THEY WANT TO GET IT OR NOT, it's not just woman
who get dragged down, it's the male counterparts as well, if you have a child do you know how much harder it is to actually further yourself in life
just say for example you hooked up with a girl when you were 17 (Young and foolish) you don't use contraception and you get pregnant, you now have to
pay CSA, money towards the child, spend time with the child and sometimes even the woman and male will come together even though they don't want to be
together for the sake of the child... but its fine as long as the majority of society is happy and dictates what everyone else does.
I know, I may be flamed by your god lovers out there telling me that "God says that, god says that" .. Answer this question, If god already knows
everything and he gave us the power of freewill, he knew everything that was going to happen, so he already knew that we'd slowly come away from
worshiping him then why hasn't he show us to prove he is real? .. Because he is a made up character, you can't reach god on a plane, you can't reach
god on a spaceship no, you reach god if you dedicate your life to him and die .. BULLSH*T!!!!
I think some people need to pull there head out of there ass and stop telling people how they should live their lives if they follow the holy book,
the telly, messages writting in the sky from airplanes, you don't like other people coming into your life and just telling you what to do, so don't do
it to others. We were given the power of free will and we will exercise our free will as much as we want and no one will stop any human being who does
Seriously, sometimes people just need to back off and focus on there own life rather than bombarding other peoples with theirs. I still feel sorry for
the woman that the doctor scared because it was her choice and now she thinks that killing the fetus in her womb is the same as killing the baby who
opens his/her eyes, looks around the world, can even make noises and smiles and laughs, a child is a blessing and it is your choice as the parental
guardian of this child to decide whether YOU are up for the job and want to bring a baby into this world, no one else
Oh yeah.. I forgot to mention.. Abortions are legal
edit on 11/11/11 by Windows because: recorrecting spelling mistakes