Routinely as far back as I can remember, there have been dental screenings in elementary schools. All 3 of my children have had them and I remember as a child having them as well.

I remember coming into class on dental screening day and seeing that little blue plaque finding tablet, a toothbrush and a little mirror on my desk and being very excited knowing we'd get out of doing school work for a morning!

So last week they had the screening at my 2 youngest children's school. Nothing came home with them, so I assumed everything was fine. I'm never worried about these screenings as luckily we have full dental coverage and my children are at the dentist twice yearly for checkups. Our latest had been just 4 months ago and the kids weren't due for another 2 months.

Fast forward to yesterday when I pulled a letter out of my mailbox. The heading on the envelope was "Public Health Department" and was addressed to me. I was thinking what on earth would the public health department have to send to me?! I opened it and was greeted with two pieces of paper. The first states:

"Dear Parent/Guardian: During a regular dental screening, our staff found that your child has a dental problem which needs treatment by a dentist as soon as possible. The Board of Health is required by law to ensure that children receive necessary treatment."

The letter goes on to say:

"I am required by The Health Promotion and Protection Act (1990) to determine what action you have taken."

Then there is a space for the dentist I take him to to sign and date showing that I have actually taken my child to the dentist.

I got on the phone to the dental office and asked the hygienist to pull his chart and see if perhaps I'd missed them telling me about a cavity, or an area of concern the dentist took note of. There is nothing at all. His last checkup was perfect other than the usual "brush better/longer". I made an appointment for this morning to have this checked on...but the stubborn part of me wanted to ignore the letter and see just exactly what would happen if I don't get it signed and returned.

I can't pinpoint exactly why this letter ticks me off...perhaps it's because I DO make the time and effort to have my children seen by the dentist regularly, perhaps it's because this letter is basically telling me that I'm such a crappy parent that I can't be trusted to ensure my children are taken care of...or maybe I just spend too much time on ATS and the conspiracies are started to sink in LOL.

I am trying to be fair and understand that there are parents out there that probably don't take care of their kids' dental health...be it ignorance(as in not understanding the importance of dental health), lack of money or just plain uncaring...and those children can and will benefit from this type of system. But damn it...i'm not one of them and I resent the implication that I wouldn't follow up on this! I think a card or quick note home in regards to a possible issue would suffice.

One of the assistants in my particular dental office happens to also be a long time friend and I was complaining to her about this. She told me not to take offense that it is standard procedure for these letters to be sent out. But I still just can't get over it. When did the government decide that we're not fit to oversee our children's healthcare? Or am I just looking into this too much and being to sensitive?

Michelle

My kid's dental care consisted of showing them my teeth and telling them that if they did not brush their teeth they would look like mine. They've never had a cavity. They can't do anything to you for not filling out paperwork. I never did and never got into any trouble.

Is your water treated with fluoride? If so, then the government is already involved with the community's dental health. I'd be more pissed about fluoride in the water supply then some paper your can have your family dentist sign off on. I bet the people checking your kids have little experience compared to your family dentist, if so, why believe what they have to say. On top of these issues, many people can't afford the dentist, regardless if the kids teeth are rotten or not. Ever go to a dentist that excepts welfare? They are blood thirsty sadists! I'd rather pull my own tooth.

Originally posted by Michelle129th

"Dear Parent/Guardian: During a regular dental screening, our staff found that your child has a dental problem which needs treatment by a dentist as soon as possible. The Board of Health is required by law to ensure that children receive necessary treatment."

There was no phone number on the letter for you to call and ask what the dental problem was? This is the part that had me upset, as it seems like a form letter, that is way too open for interpretation.

Then there is a space for the dentist I take him to to sign and date showing that I have actually taken my child to the dentist.

Unless the board of health could give me an answer as to what they found wrong, there is no way I would have even scheduled an appointment.

You are lucky enough to have dental insurance. What about the parents who don't? I know I would want a specific answer before I called and scheduled an appointment.

I made an appointment for this morning to have this checked on...but the stubborn part of me wanted to ignore the letter and see just exactly what would happen if I don't get it signed and returned.

To have what checked on?

You did exactly what they wanted you to do, which was take your child to the dentist. You know you are already doing what you are supposed to be doing in regards to your childs dental health, so perhaps that is what pisses you off.

The stubborn part of me would have made sure there was really a need to schedule an appointment based on what the board of health found before even calling my dentist and having a chart pulled.

Well, lo and behold....took my son to the dentist and NOTHING was found. No concerns, no cavities. Even took $72 worth of xrays to be sure.

I called the hygienist that sent this letter and hopefully made his day bad! I asked who was going to pay the money for the xrays now that nothing was found...or were they just so inept that paperwork got switched and they sent to the wrong kid. He informed me that their concern was some recession on his bottom gums...and that normally before the letter would be received by a parent they would make a point to phone and let the parent know exactly what the issue was. He, however, had been called out of the office for several days to attend personal business and didn't get a chance to phone me.

Firstly...your personal business is not my problem. If I leave my work for any reason, there is someone to fill in to take over my job...so someone else should've phoned. Secondly, why not just write the concern on the letter you sent. My child's name and the date are handwritten on the letter, so at some point as it crossed your desk you had pen in hand...

I then asked what would happen in the case of me not sending the letter back..."would you call Children's Aid on me?" (i'm in Canada btw). He laughed and said technically yes....Not specifically in my case as it was not an overt case of a parent not caring for their child's dental health. But, if they saw a child with obvious dental issues they would send out 2 letters. A third would be sent out registered so they knew you received it. At that point if there was still no communication they would phone the authorities. But again...he was quick to inform me that my case was not even close to needing those tactics. Well that's nice...but how am I to know that without that very informative phone call home?? Had I spent the $72 in lieu of paying a bill, or feeding my children, or whatever, your apology for personal problems is not going to cut it for me.

Then, i'm sure, to try to appease me he said he was glad I called because it was generally the parents that DID care and were taking care of their child's dental health that called and were pissed off...so he was not concerned about my son at this point. He told me he wanted to send out that letter for his own "peace of mind" that it was being followed up on. He then informed me that he had made a note in my son's "file" (now they have a file on him?) and because it wasn't of great concern that I didn't even have to return the dentist signed paperwork. I told him "well...for MY peace of mind, i'm sending you the signed letter and you can stick it in my son's FILE so there will be no questions in the future about whether or not I had followed up just in case a "personal problem" comes up and someone else takes a look at his FILE"

To my dentist's credit he added a little note to the letter stating that nothing (underlined) was found and that his regularly scheduled checkup was in 2 months.

Half a day off work, child pulled out of school and $72 in xrays. I should send the damn letter registered mail back to them..."just to be sure you got it"

Just on a side note how's this for creepy. When I called him the hygienist asked which school I was calling about. I said "blah blah blah public school" and he responded nearly immediately with "oh you're calling about Ryan..." I literally almost choked on my coffee!! I know i'm spending far too much time on ATS when that made me completely paranoid LOL. I'm sure they either subscribe to call display or Ryan was the only one that was sent a letter..but it did freak me out and disconcert me for about 30 seconds.

Be careful and be sure to brush your kids' teeth or they'll come get you!

Michelle