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Originally posted by Hawkwind.
Originally posted by nixie_nox
reply to post by Hawkwind.
As someone who was a child more then 13 years ago, you are deluding yourself if you think kids didn't know what is going on.
At ten years old you were learning about porn were you? Not gonna happen in my house. Just because you knew about it it doesn't mean all ten year olds are exposed to it. Deluded my arse.
If your daughter understands that sex can lead to having to care for a baby (too hard for a child themselves), is a part of romantic love and commitment and that sex without romantic love can be hurtful and dangerous, then she will have a balanced, reasonable and healthy outlook. Innocence does not have to mean ignorance. Follow up with the teacher and explain the approach to sex education that you wish your daughter to have.
Originally posted by gabby2011
They were only learning about the word.. and quite frankly any 10 year old that watches any kind of television.. most likely already knows what porn is..especially if they watch mtv.
This is why I control what my kids watch, as should every parent. As for MTV, gradual desensitisation has allowed what is virtually softporn video to accompany much of the crappy music they play. I'm not exposing my kids to that bullcrap, when they're older they can do what they want but while I'm in charge of them I'm not filling their head with close ups of tits and arses on M damn TV and I'm certainly gonna do my best to shield them from anything porn until they're at least 12-13, what's wrong with that?
Originally posted by gabby2011
Lets face it..you can't get away from the topic of sex.. its always been a part of life, and is what creates life..so why do we hide talking about it..like its some taboo thing..that is dirty..?
Another member pointed out how she grew up feeling sex was dirty and bad ? ...