posted on May, 30 2012 @ 01:59 PM
reply to post by tinker9917
Please google "Ted Talks--Temple Grandin"and you will learn how your children see the world and it will be easier to communicate with them and make
them comfortable and happy.
Your kids are visual thinkers and are light years ahead of most people and because they are recieveing to little stimulus on their level they seem to
be atrophying is certain areas from the perspective of 1 dimensional and 2 dimensional or conventional thinkers.
Temple Grandin will explain everything clearly in the show.
These traits are simply your kids showing you how they see the world ,remember they see the world in a visual way like an everchangeing video,not in
linear thoughts like most people.
The best way for you to understand it is to think of your kids as mini "googles"because the way they recieve and give out data or thoughts and
emotions is very much like the form and function of Google.
They can intake a TREMENDOUS amount of data continuously,in fact they NEED this constant flood of incomeing data to keep their internal video rolling
along nicely,the problem is that parents and teachers cannot possibly give them enough and enough variety to allow them to evolve comfortably as
individuals,if you believe it or not talk to then tenderly but as if they are adults ALL the time you will get a better response,because the MORE
complicated the dynamic you involve them in the more COMFORTABLE they will become,just make sure you keep their brain multi-tasking by provideing a
lot of visually catalysed commentary and verbal contact consistant.Just assume they will be able to inderstand complicated dynamics because they
actually need YOU to open up and give them more data so they can keep learning visually,you need to give them more mental food,NOT less,just more
VARIETY--in a constant consistant format.