posted on Jun, 17 2011 @ 05:07 PM
reply to post by mutantgenius
Again I agree with you. It is not a front line of defense, and should not be used as such. credit to you that your daughter has been educated so
A lot of kids though do need, in the absence of all reason, a physical stimuli. I feel especially boys. I don't know why, maybe that is just my
Yes you can talk to them, yes they will sometimes understand. I am not a big advocate of "Don't do that, Why? because I said so"
Always explain why, and teach them why. But sometimes especially when behavior is dangerous. A short sharp shock is required, and balanced against the
severity of the situation. to me it makes sense.
They need, sometimes, at a time when they cannot comprehend that which is outside there level of experience the consequence of an action, which may
end up normally with them being dead, injured, or someone else the same. Rather a smack, then the former!