posted on May, 4 2011 @ 06:22 PM
For the past few years i have been witnessing a continuous entropic decline in not just the economy but society as a whole, i have lost many
friends,relationships and jobs. most of it is so mind boggling i cant even begin to wrap my mind around it, out of it i coined a phrase "bridges
built over gasoline streams". im not going to get into the thick of it with my own personal story because its too much to type, so ill get to most
recent, a few months ago i moved in with my best friend and his parents out of state away from family reluctantly but had no other option, i fear i
have become un hireable in an already brutally competitive job market, ive been on interviews and turned in many applications, and yet employment
seems to elude me. another thing is i was crushed a couple months ago when my girl friend dropped me with no explanation, so eventually i met another
girl who im seeing occasionally,we havent made commitments other than dates and general chit chat but it feels good to have made a new friend who is
supportive and willing to listen to what i have to say and takes me seriously, with that piece of info there heres my dilemma, one day my best friend
was annoying the piss out of me since i got up,and i had woken up foggy and irritable anyways because the night before i drank about a 5th of vodka,
nothing new but you know how the day after is,wasnt hung over feeling sick with a headache but had the rest of the usual symptoms,i repeatedly told
him to stop annoying me,and when i do that he gets pissy like a 13 year old hormonal girl, im 29 hes 32 by the way,anyways im having a tough time as
it is emotionally being without my son and worried about finding work because if i cant stay here i have absolutely nothing and nowhere to
go,essentially nothing to lose in a matter of speaking,im 1500 miles from my son and thats what i have to live and keep pushing for,anyways, all day
it went like that, then i finally confronted him in an adult manner and tried to explain to him how i felt and why he was bothering me,i was beginning
to boil over when all he did was mock me the whole time like a teenager then he walked out of the room, i was texting my newly acquired lady friend on
my laptop about it and she was getting off work at 9pm and asked if i wanted to go with her to the beach for a couple hours to get out for a bit,get
my mind off of it and blow off some steam,i said i sure would i think i need it,anyways i went and told my friends dad that i was gonna go meet up
with her for a couple hours and that i would be back and not to worry,he thought it was kind of odd but was like ok go for it since i never leave at
night anyways. i didnt tell him why i was going out just that i was invited i didnt want to stress him out and tell him how his son is being a
puke,not my place u know, anyways i take off and come back around 1 am,i had a key so i didnt have to wake anyone up but his mom was still up
anyways,i went up stairs and went to bed. the next morning i woke up and there was a letter under my door from my friend saying he was pissed because
his mom was a little worried the night before so that day i apologized to them and we came to an understanding and told them that i wouldnt be out so
late anymore i just had to get out,i told them half truth why and left out that i was irritated with their son. anyways my friend has been PMS'ing so
to speak since and hasnt been talking to me,its been 4 days already, the parents are well over it and ive been out with the girl since and came back
at a decent hour like i promised, ive emailed him and hes just being cold and distant,i dont think hes still mad about worrying his mom it was such a
minor thing,but it still reminds me of how my other friendships and relationships dissolved over trivial things, im not sure when hell come around to
his senses or if he will,which puts me in a tough spot, lately i feel like ive been living in the twilight zone and im watching the whole world around
me crumble and collapse,ive been best friends with this guy for 15 years,i would hate to see it end on such a trivial note,but i wouldnt be suprised
these days,any explanation as to why this is happening? why everything in my life is falling apart at an alarming rate?